Kermit007 Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 Hi guys/girls, I need some advice on I girl I met a few weeks ago. When I was out with buddies a girl walked over and tried to sell us tickets for a party she organized a few weeks later. Me and my friends bought tickets and even when she got our money she still sticked around our group all night. She talked to me as well as with my friends. Its not like she talked more with me then with my buddies. A friend of mine however said that he tought she was interested in me. I didn't see it... The next day she added all of us on facebook. A couple of days later I started a fb chat with her. We talked a little bit...nothing more, no flirting. Everytime however I put a new picture/status update on facebook she likes it..The night of the party she came over and during that night out of all my friends I was the one she talked to the most. I probably was also the only one who have been talking to her on facebook, so i guess she trusted me the most. Nothing special happened between us that night.. The next day she initiated contact with me over facebook chat and we talked again. I asked her if she would like to catch a movie sometime. She agreed with this...However she has difficult hours due to her work, so I said she had to give me a day, so we could set a definite date. She says this was OK. A few hours later she fb texted me again, saying she would rather go get a drink, that way we could at least talk. I was fine with this and tought that she was into me. A couple of days went by and i didnt hear from her. Monday night I saw she was online so we talked again. She said she had a week of vacation and was enjoying her time off. I immediately tought "Well...you have the time now...and don't contact me to get a drink", but I didnt say anything about it. During our conversation she asked me if I dated a lot. At this moment she said..her phonebattery was almost dead...she dissapeared from the chat, but came back online because she had charged her phone. Then I was like "Ok she is putting in the effort to talk to me" Anyway...we talked some more and she said she liked a show called The Walking Dead. She was currently watching season 4. At home I have some episode of season 5. So I said...why dont you come over and watch the 5th season with me ? She said this was OK fer her! At that time my phone battery had almost died...so I texted her my phone number and said..."I'm not that much on FB chat, so heres my number if you want to talk". I said goodbye and went to sleep.. In the morning I looked at my phone and saw she had send me her number as well. I tought this was a good sign. Since then I have been the one initiating contact with her over text...She doesnt initiate it...And I would like to make a date with her, she says she wants to ...but no definite date is set yet... Long story short...sometimes I thing she is into me, sometimes I think she is not... Your opinions ?
thecrucible Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 She seems at least somewhat interested if she gave you her number. But you'll have to set up a date to get to know each other in person. How long have you been texting for?
SycamoreCircle Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 There's no point weighing the amount of times she Liked your posts or spoke to you. You're in personal contact with her now. ASK HER OUT. If she is not interested in you, she still will not look down on you for asking her out.
carhill Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 Use the voice function on your small handheld information device, call her up and directly ask her out for that drink she had suggested as an alternative to a movie. Be aware that, given your first social interaction, it is possible that her friendliness is a social hack to add you as a future customer. I never gave this kind of a hack a thought until an employee faked personal interest to line me up for an investment spiel she was doing as a moonlight job. She was good! The bottom line is some women use sex to sell. Beware of that. 1
preraph Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 I think she likes you. Now, she could be just one of those extremely social butterflies, but you'd probably have noticed that by now because they flit about talking to everyone. But she likes you at least enough to want to get to know you better, so by all means ask her out. She brought up dating, so that's a good sign.
Toodaloo Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 She sounds like a social butterfly to me... Don't think anything of it. 1
Author Kermit007 Posted February 12, 2015 Author Posted February 12, 2015 She seems at least somewhat interested if she gave you her number. But you'll have to set up a date to get to know each other in person. How long have you been texting for? About a week we have been texting now.... It's like she sometimes reaches out to me and I think she is interested and then other times I feel its just my imagination. However...This weekend I did go out for a drink with a female friend of mine. At that time I was chatting with her and told her I had to go, cause I was getting a drink with this other girl. THe next conversation we had she asked if I had fun, and if I went on a lot of dates with girls...
Author Kermit007 Posted February 12, 2015 Author Posted February 12, 2015 I think she likes you. Now, she could be just one of those extremely social butterflies, but you'd probably have noticed that by now because they flit about talking to everyone. But she likes you at least enough to want to get to know you better, so by all means ask her out. She brought up dating, so that's a good sign. Well I have to say...she is social, but its not like she talks to absolutely everybody.
Author Kermit007 Posted February 12, 2015 Author Posted February 12, 2015 There's no point weighing the amount of times she Liked your posts or spoke to you. You're in personal contact with her now. ASK HER OUT. If she is not interested in you, she still will not look down on you for asking her out. Well I kinda did ask her out...for movie...but she wants to go get a drink. However I did tell her to send me a day when she is free...and she said she would, but hasn't
carhill Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 Make it specific and, if no clear answer or suggestion for a future specific date, erase. 1
mightycpa Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 maybe it's understandable... what line of work is she in that makes her days difficult to predict?
Author Kermit007 Posted February 12, 2015 Author Posted February 12, 2015 maybe it's understandable... what line of work is she in that makes her days difficult to predict? She works at a hospital. Never the less all week she had vacation and didnt bring it up to meet. Also the last 3-4 times its always me initiating contact
smackie9 Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 However...This weekend I did go out for a drink with a female friend of mine. At that time I was chatting with her and told her I had to go, cause I was getting a drink with this other girl. She was interested until you told her this^^^^
Author Kermit007 Posted February 12, 2015 Author Posted February 12, 2015 She was interested until you told her this^^^^ So i'm not allowed to have a drink with a female friend of mine???
carhill Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 You're also not allowed to talk favorably about any ex-girlfriends or ex-wives.
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