Vero Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 She sits in front of me in my HS history class. I occasionally do some light flirting whenever I can, but it's difficult because she hardly does anything; she just sits sideways in her desk occasionally peaking over at what I'm doing and smiling (she probably thinks she's flirting just by doing that). Basically she's pretty darn shy when I'm talking to her which makes it hard to make any connections. I know it's the guys job to lead everything, but it gets so annoying when I'm starting convos and she doesn't build on them at all. I'm almost certain she's into me, but she's so darn shy it begins to make me shy and it's irritating me. Advice?
freebird31 Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 This is my EXACT problem. I am the shy girl. And it's so frustrating. But I would say make a move and ask for her number. When you get to texting, it will be easier for her to open up over text. I have this very problem I get shy esp with guys I'm extremely interested in its so damn frustrating all I do is smile and freeze up and don't know how to build on the convo. Ugh. But when I get to know the person, trust them, get comfortable it is so much different. She's obviously not going to make any moves. So I would just go for it and ask for her number if you think she is into it. Then just talk to her text her, let her get comfortable with you. She might be this really amazing person under all the layers of shy. Lol
Revan32 Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 Ugghh yeah I hate shy girls. I'm going through the same thing right now with a girl who's a trainer at my gym. She is always super nice to me, and we make eye contact a ton while working out. I mentioned to her a while back while she was working out with one of her patients that she should come say hi to me when she's not busy. Figuring she'd get the clue that I like her and want to ask her out. She's never done it though, so i figure she's not interested. The problem is she still is always looking at me, and i'm like 90% positive she likes me. I was talking to one of her customers too and they said she's single. Today I just straight up ignored her. I just kinda grunted a hi when she walked past me and waved. I'm not going to ask her out in front of her customers though so there's not much else i can do. Sorry I kind of made that about me didn't I... Just been thinking about it all day. So my advice for you is doing the exact opposite of what i'm doing. Because I'm pretty sure i'll just end up offending her, which will then make me sad because I like her and wanted to see where things went. So just go ask her out before things get super awkward like I let it get.
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