Mark1 Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 Women at my work tell me how handsome I am, without me asking them or anything. It will jsut come up in conversation. That I have nice eyes, that they like my beard, today someone said I'm "dreamy." Are they just being nice?
LoveRefreshed Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 yes, you ugly homeless bum. You have food crumbs in your beard. do you need external validation to feel good about yourself? 1
Author Mark1 Posted February 12, 2015 Author Posted February 12, 2015 I have very low self confidence, but I don't show it in person. Also, I'm indian so I dont think I'm that good looking to caucasian women.
LoveRefreshed Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 Hrmm, yeah I think sometimes this matters to some people (skin color) but not that often. Plus, girls love "tall dark and handsome"... if you're tall you might have all three. hahaha.
Toodaloo Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 I have very low self confidence, but I don't show it in person. Also, I'm indian so I dont think I'm that good looking to caucasian women. Clearly you are wrong. I had a Pakistani physio treating me recently, oh my lord he had bedroom eyes... to wake up next to those would have been a treat for any girl... Did I think "oh he is Pakistani so I can't fancy him"? No. I just thought he had lovely eyes! Hadn't thought about his skin colour or ethnic back ground until your post now... Still not bothered as he still had lovely eyes... and lovely arms... and a firm bottom... and... 1
gaius Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 It's hard to tell without seeing it in person, but there are a lot of women who will instinctively mother other men like that if they feel they need it. When they feel a lack of self confidence. It's genuinely not a compliment in that case. It means they can sense your weakness.
compulsivedancer Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 I have very low self confidence, but I don't show it in person. Also, I'm indian so I dont think I'm that good looking to caucasian women. If women are going out of their way to call you handsome - dreamy! even - then they genuinely think you are. Now if they are sliding it in when you say something leading, that's a different story. (You: "She wasn't interested." Women: "Her loss, because you're really handsome.") In that case, she may just be soothing your feelings. Lots of white women like dark skin. I actually prefer the Spanish or Italian look, or maybe half-middle eastern. I know lots of girls that prefer blank or Hospanic guys. I don't know a lot of Indian guys, so I couldn't vouch for that one, but I imagine lots of girls find the look dreamy and exotic.
preraph Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 Here's what I can tell for sure from their comments: They really like you as a person enough to feel like complimenting you. I'm sure they are sincere. You may be so humble that they are trying to make sure you realize you are an attractive man. But the best news is that they really seem to care about you! So enjoy that and appreciate that you have some friends there. 1
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