nikkigirl55 Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 So I've been with this guy for like 2 months now, we have already talked about the fact that we're both not ready for a serious relationship but that we want what we are to be exclusive. We are both still following that but when I hung out with my friend he seemed jealous. I asked him later that night if he was jealous and he said he didn't care what I did or who I saw. I don't know if I'm reading too far into this. We have been friends forever and his friends and my friends all know that we are together. I am one of the only people who can make his smile and he told me the other day that I'm literally one of the only things that makes him constantly happy. I feel the same way and we can go from extremely flirty and giggly to super serious in 2 seconds flat. We talk about everything and he told me to tell him when something he did upsets me but I feel like that could push him away... I'm trying to figure out if this is worth all of this uncertainty. Any advice?
Leigh 87 Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 After 2 months, a man knows if you're relationship material. I don't think you are "it" for him. I think if he met a girl he was really into that he'd have a relationship with her by this stage. Real men who know they aren't ready for a serious relationship DON'T DATE. If they have half a brain - or they say " look, FWB is all I am after right now" from day one, if they are honest and decent.
mariekatie Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 By 2 months, you would already have been exclusive. It's long enough for him to know what he feel. Maybe not official but exclusive. I wouldn't suggest waiting it out but instead go talk to him about it.
LoveRefreshed Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 So I've been with this guy for like 2 months now, we have already talked about the fact that we're both not ready for a serious relationship but that we want what we are to be exclusive. We are both still following that but when I hung out with my friend he seemed jealous. I asked him later that night if he was jealous and he said he didn't care what I did or who I saw. I don't know if I'm reading too far into this. We have been friends forever and his friends and my friends all know that we are together. I am one of the only people who can make his smile and he told me the other day that I'm literally one of the only things that makes him constantly happy. I feel the same way and we can go from extremely flirty and giggly to super serious in 2 seconds flat. We talk about everything and he told me to tell him when something he did upsets me but I feel like that could push him away... I'm trying to figure out if this is worth all of this uncertainty. Any advice? Sometimes, I am not sure if other people even pay attention when they read, if they read. I would say that you should ask him if he is being jealous and tell him he can be honest with you if he feels about you a certain way. Likely he wants something a bit more serious but is scared of pushing you away if he admits it. Maybe he wants you to do it first. As a guy, I know that if we let the cat out of the bag too soon on what we want, it could send a girl running. What do you want? Would you be ready for something more serious (a label)? I mean exclusive dating, what else is there but just calling it what it is?
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