wussmann Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 Hello! I always go this book store where this guy works. I noticed he was always staring at me so I just gave a smile and we started talking. Sometimes he's a bit weird. Like, he once kissed me on the cheek out of nowhere!, and when we talk he starts looking at... my clothes? At first, I thought that we could be great friends, because we like the same stuff, and it feels so great to talk to him, but I'm starting to find him attractive. He once got so close to me that I felt intimidated and very nervous because I couldn't stop staring at his lips and I was like "what the hell is wrong with me?" I barely know him, I can't see him everyday, and I'm seeing another guy now (not dating, though), so I don't want to have a crush on him, but I'm too weak and I can't control it XD Last time we talked, after 7 months without visiting that store, I tried to not talk to him when he saw me, but he kept staring so I decided to say something and we talked for a while. He wrote a name of a band in a piece of paper, but not his number! He didn't even ask my name yet. lol Why he keeps doing these things? Maybe he's just being nice? Or casually flirting? It's been almost one year... damn!
Mrin Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 First off - kudos for you going to a book store! Okay back to your question. He's either interested or gay. So you are seeing a guy but not dating (so I would assume that is code for just initially dating or FWB), but when you get around this guy you start staring at his lips and get all sorts of flustered. I don't see what the problem is. That sort of magnetism is pretty cool and honestly, you're feeling it about a guy you see at a book store. I mean, that makes him a pretty good prospect in terms of being unlikely to be a complete douche. I'd go back to the bookstore, start talking with him and then say something like, "I'm sorry, I am so bad with names. What's your name?" or if he has a tag on his shirt with his name on it, say something like "Joe the Book Guy, I so enjoy seeing your smiling face when I come in here. I'm Wussmann by the way. Nice to meet you!" and proffer your hand. See where it goes... And report back! 1
Author wussmann Posted February 13, 2015 Author Posted February 13, 2015 hahah well, he doesn't seem to be gay, so he's probably interested. Yeah, I'll try to ask his name next time I see him. The problem is that we can't talk for more than a few minutes that his supervisor shows up and he looks like an angry old man lol. Thanks for answering! I'll sure report back!
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