smoothcriminal94 Posted February 11, 2015 Share Posted February 11, 2015 So my ex and I split up just over a month ago after dating for a year. He ended up as we argue too much. He said he wanted to go no contact and I agreed. He broke NC after a week and we have been talking on/off since. When we first started talking he was adamant we were not getting back together, however after a while changed his mind and wants to meet up and maybe try again when he is back from work (works offshore for month at a time). As I was so frustrated with him saying he doesn't want to get back together or doesn't know if he does or not I went crazy when he suggested meeting. And ever since I have felt different about him. When he wants to talk to me I'm not interested, but when he's not talking to me or when I tell him to leave me alone for good I go insane and want to talk to him. This has been the same for 2 weeks and I hate feeling like this. Im stuck in limbo. I don't know if I want to be with him or not. I do love him still but feel different in a way. I'm so scared to get hurt again. I'm scared we will get back together but I will just feel resentment for the way he ended things. He gets back this weekend. What should I do? Just cut him off or agree to meet. Link to post Share on other sites
tikay00 Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 If you have any resentment for him, DO NOT talk to him, or meet up with him. Give it a few more months, when you're calmed down, then see if you wanna try again. For now, just tell him that you don't think it's good to see each other so soon, because your not in the right frame of mind. Link to post Share on other sites
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