simon_uk Posted April 3, 2005 Posted April 3, 2005 Why do feel such a failure? I am kind generous and caring. I am not the most tactile person I will be honest and I think that stems from my childhood. I didnt have a bad childhood far from it but my family has never been the hugging and kissing type family so I think that is probably why I am not very good at being cuddly and affectionate but I do genuinely love the person I am with with all my heart. Of all of my friends that have ever broken up with a girl they always have a chance to reconcile and get back together. How come when my relationships end, thats it! They end!!!! never any coming backs or reconcilliations. i feel so hard done by right now that I never have a chance to make things right. We all make mistakes right? Both of my last relationships were great, the girl in both cases absolutely adored me for who I was, thats why they fell in love with me. When I dont become who they want to mold me into they leave me, high and dry! I feel like such a failure! Just venting Simon
vickimonster Posted April 3, 2005 Posted April 3, 2005 That post sys more about the girls than you. Not that that will make you feel any better.
Author simon_uk Posted April 3, 2005 Author Posted April 3, 2005 id like to believ that Vicki but for it to happen twice I guess says something about me!!!! Like LOSER!!!!! Simon
vickimonster Posted April 3, 2005 Posted April 3, 2005 Rubbish! To all the people on these boards we are great, and our ex's are the problem. Shame we love them and will defend them no matter what they do! (hey you gotta do something to cheer yourself up)
Fallen_Angel Posted April 4, 2005 Posted April 4, 2005 You're not a loser! Honestly, talking like that will only make you feel worse. Vicki's right. Everyone is here to vent and open up their hearts, and I feel as though we're very fortunate to be able to learn from each other.
RecordProducer Posted April 4, 2005 Posted April 4, 2005 Simon, welcome to the club! All the men/women we meet through our lives turn out to be the wrong ones at the end. That's why we're looking for the right one. And often the right one, the one we marry is a very wrong one too. You just haven't met the right girl. She will love you truly and for who you are.
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