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I lost all respect for current EX gf!!!!

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Today was a great day for me woke up went to the gym at 8am, went out to lunch and hanged out with friends all day. But when I went back to the gym at 7pm today to work out some more I saw her ex, then I noticed she was with him to. She lives forty minutes away from our city.

 

I don't care that she was at the gym, as I have no right to tell her where she cant go. But what made me so pissed off, she was kissing him, sitting on his lap, holding hands. She knew I was there, I park my motorcycle in front of the window. She knows the break up is not even three months past, and she knows Im not stable yet as she left me, and I did nothing wrong.

 

Man I was lifting heavy weight, my pre workout kicked in so fast, and I was really that pissed off that I was lifting weight I have never lifted before. It took a lot from me not to go over there and just knock him out. Im a big guy compared to this guy who can't even curl twenty five pound dumbbell, while im curling in the fifties. He knows I was pissed, his little friend kept on looking at me from a distant, and know what keep her man she is not worth the dirt under my shoes.

 

I lost what little respect I had for my ex, you do not do that in front of an ex who cared so much for you. If she had any respect for me and cared about my feelings she would have been smart enough to not do that, at least to me, at least when the break . Funny they didn't even work out at each exercise for like 3 mins, pathetic just go home. But you know what when she was leaving I was walking her way to grab a machine, we made eye contact I gave her that look of disgust, and shaked my head. She saw me and looked straight away with her head down holding her exe's hand. Pathetic man, just pathetic has no sympathy for me, nothing after all I have done for her. You know its not like I go to her work and take hotter girl than her and make out and everything. No because I have respect, and I am the bigger person.

 

It just hurts, knowing my ex is so selfish she never thinks about other peoples feelings. This encounter tonight has given me the final boot to officially move on and forget about her as a decent human being. Its just sad to trust someone with your heart and to actually find who they really are underneath the surface. Sucks but you know what I dodged a bullet, and I don't need to change who I am because of her I did nothing wrong. The only one who needs to change is her. Phew what a day lol.

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Today was a great day for me woke up went to the gym at 8am, went out to lunch and hanged out with friends all day. But when I went back to the gym at 7pm today to work out some more I saw her ex, then I noticed she was with him to. She lives forty minutes away from our city.

 

I don't care that she was at the gym, as I have no right to tell her where she cant go. But what made me so pissed off, she was kissing him, sitting on his lap, holding hands. She knew I was there, I park my motorcycle in front of the window. She knows the break up is not even three months past, and she knows Im not stable yet as she left me, and I did nothing wrong.

 

Man I was lifting heavy weight, my pre workout kicked in so fast, and I was really that pissed off that I was lifting weight I have never lifted before. It took a lot from me not to go over there and just knock him out. Im a big guy compared to this guy who can't even curl twenty five pound dumbbell, while im curling in the fifties. He knows I was pissed, his little friend kept on looking at me from a distant, and know what keep her man she is not worth the dirt under my shoes.

 

I lost what little respect I had for my ex, you do not do that in front of an ex who cared so much for you. If she had any respect for me and cared about my feelings she would have been smart enough to not do that, at least to me, at least when the break . Funny they didn't even work out at each exercise for like 3 mins, pathetic just go home. But you know what when she was leaving I was walking her way to grab a machine, we made eye contact I gave her that look of disgust, and shaked my head. She saw me and looked straight away with her head down holding her exe's hand. Pathetic man, just pathetic has no sympathy for me, nothing after all I have done for her. You know its not like I go to her work and take hotter girl than her and make out and everything. No because I have respect, and I am the bigger person.

 

It just hurts, knowing my ex is so selfish she never thinks about other peoples feelings. This encounter tonight has given me the final boot to officially move on and forget about her as a decent human being. Its just sad to trust someone with your heart and to actually find who they really are underneath the surface. Sucks but you know what I dodged a bullet, and I don't need to change who I am because of her I did nothing wrong. The only one who needs to change is her. Phew what a day lol.

 

It sucked , but now you just got the upper hand! You know how worthless she is, and you have the fires burning hot to blaze trails in your life *without* her, well done!!!

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Thanks ForgingAhead for the support, It was not easy seeing her today. But I used that anger into something positive and had a killer workout. But its what I needed and I see clearly now I don't need her.

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She doesn't deserve any respect... u dealt with it absolutely brilliantly u should be very proud of yourself x

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Good job not displaying the anger to her.

I think this validates your decision to move on

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Hey man, that sucks, she's a selfish and very immature girl. You finally realized that and so did I about mine.

 

You know what mine did? We were together for 7 years, left me for someone else and just a couple of days after the BU she already posted a selfie with him and a sweet little quote how happy she is blah blah blah. Then I unfortunately ran into them a couple of times, could hear her laugh from a mile away like she's the happiest person alive.

 

Our exes are currently flying somewhere above the clouds but just imagine the landing if they ever fall. And I think they will sooner or later but who cares right?

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Hey man, that sucks, she's a selfish and very immature girl. You finally realized that and so did I about mine.

 

You know what mine did? We were together for 7 years, left me for someone else and just a couple of days after the BU she already posted a selfie with him and a sweet little quote how happy she is blah blah blah. Then I unfortunately ran into them a couple of times, could hear her laugh from a mile away like she's the happiest person alive.

 

Our exes are currently flying somewhere above the clouds but just imagine the landing if they ever fall. And I think they will sooner or later but who cares right?

 

That was a long time and pathetic how she could do that after 7 years.

 

Hell they fall they fall, mine has to remember I helped her up from that fall. In return I was stabbed in the back and woke up in a bathtub full of ice missing my perfectly beating heart haha.

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