Reysa09 Posted February 11, 2015 Posted February 11, 2015 Hi. I really would like some insight on this issue that I am having and maybe someone can shed some light on this situation. I have known this guy for about 10 years. Im 23, and hes 26, so you do the math. We never really physically 'met' until recently but we have always had a good 'social media' relationship (myspace days). He wrote me a message on facebook one day responding to a status I had wrote about a recent break up that I had. I was still a little hurt from my previous relationship so I took him up on his offer when he asked me out on a date. He came over after work one day and took me out. We had a good time, laughed and joked and we actually had sex. The following days were just perfect. He was doing everything right. Telling me how beautiful I am and how amazing I am and how much he wanted to be with me and move things along. He was telling me that I was the only one in his life and he wanted to make me happy. He brought me flowers and cooked dinner for me. At one point I was a little overwhelmed by all the attention I was getting. I had told him he was moving too fast and I still had some feelings for my ex...but he didn't stop trying to make me happy. So everything was good for about two weeks.... The next week he claims he got 'busy' by picking up more hours at work. I was a little annoying by asking him why did he stop making time for me but he still claimed he was working too much. I even asked to see his phone one time and he gave it to me with no hesitation. I was skeptical because all of a sudden he wasn't telling me the sweet things he once told me and now our conversations are more like 'hey' 'wyd' 'oh okay'. I asked him what was wrong and he would claim its work. It seems like every day it gets worse and we're talking less and less. I called him a few days ago and he actually BROKE UP WITH ME. Telling me that he thinks we rushed into a relationship and maybe we should take a step back and work on ourselves because he doesn't want to ruin a 10 year friendship. He told me that he doesn't think that he is emotionally ready and that he hasn't been in a relationship in 4 or 5 years. He said when the time is right or if its meant to be we will be together. Im just confused. He treated me like a queen and now hes treating me like a NOBODY. We haven't even been talking on the phone. He'll text me once a day to ask how im doing but that's IT! What did I do ? Did I push him away ? All this happened in the course of ONE MONTH. We were suppose to spend valentines day weekend together and he has not mentioned it at all this week. What should I do ????
fronk Posted February 11, 2015 Posted February 11, 2015 Maybe he is being honest? Maybe he really doesn't want to ruin a 10 year friendship. Would you want to?
Author Reysa09 Posted February 11, 2015 Author Posted February 11, 2015 Maybe he is being honest? Maybe he really doesn't want to ruin a 10 year friendship. Would you want to? No I don't want to ruin my friendship but what kind of friend just doesn't talk at ALL. Hes really showing that hes not really interested.
Jessie1231 Posted February 11, 2015 Posted February 11, 2015 If a guy I've been seeing for a week or two asks to see my phone, I'm finished with the relationship. 1
Author Reysa09 Posted February 11, 2015 Author Posted February 11, 2015 So basically I scared him off ?
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