Atmosphere77 Posted February 11, 2015 Posted February 11, 2015 So, I was about to contact my ex about getting together after 4 months of only her contacting me. I get a phone call from an old friend for a nonrelated issue. Now this is a good friend but also obnoxious and a major sh*t stirrer. That's why I don't talk to him much. We're catching up. I mention I broke up with the ex. He say's oh yeah, my brother saw her all over this guy at a concert. She saw his brother who she had met before and kinda ran away from him. I'm like when? 6 weeks before we broke up. So I remembered her story to me that Steven, her 2 bests friends husband and brother, asked her to go short notice to the concert after his wife couldn't go. It was fine with me. So I'm like "whatever" and we get off the phone. Then I start thinking, wait a minute, how do I know she was with steven? We were on the rocks by then. How do I know that wasn't a cover story after my friends brother saw her? I'm about to call this girl but if she was cheating on me screw that. The concert was like 6 months ago. It would really piss me off if I missed her that long just to find this out now. Next night I go to call my friend back and get details but luckily I found I had his brother's number in my phone. Gave him a call and asked him what he saw. He said he just saw her there with another guy. She wasn't "all over him" and he doesn't even think she saw him there. He just mentioned it just in case he should let me know. What a dick my friend is. Anyway, everyone here is hearing things from other people, going on facebook to look at pics, etc. Make sure you know the true facts before you react.
darkbloom Posted February 13, 2015 Posted February 13, 2015 I found out after the breakup via a mutual friend. I broke NC to verify with the ex that it happened. But I had my suspicions via Facebook. Always go straight to the source. It made NC a thousand times easier now that I know he cheated. On to the next
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