Vero Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 I've had the same problem with girls throughout high school so far. I meet them in my classes and I can talk and flirt with them, but I don't know how to take it out of the classroom. I put WAAAY too much pressure on myself to walk with them between classes. I can walk with any other girl I don't like, but once I fixate on one, I get awkward. I know she's interested, but pretty damn shy around me. I just wish I could get us isolated so we could just chill and get to know each other. There aren't many events happening at our school, so it's kinda hard to spend time together other than in the classroom. I chill out in the library in the mornings and I think she has the same lunch as me if that means anything. How do most guys do it? This girl is very passive so I have to lead this to a relationship. To be honest, I'm pretty scared of coming off as needy. I had a past relationship that ended because of it. I've also rejected a couple of needy girls also. This neediness is probably stopping me from talking to her after class or anything else to progress the relationship. What do I do?!
smackie9 Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 Ask her to the movies, or out for a slice of pizza......it's called a date. 1
Author Vero Posted February 10, 2015 Author Posted February 10, 2015 Should I not get to know her more before going on a date? I seems that in the adult world you get to know people during the date, and in the high school world it's flipped; get to know them, then date.
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