luvme1 Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 Hi all, My boyfriend and I have had a few breakups in our 4 years together. Once was for 2 months, and another time was 1.5 months. Both times I went no contact immediately after the breakup, and both times he came running back begging and pleading. It's true what they say, the no contact really makes them wonder....what is she doing? is she dating? has she moved on? why isn't she calling? And their curiosity gets the best of them and they come running back (at least in my case). Just trying to give some hope to those of you looking for a second chance. And hey, if your ex doesn't come back, just know that by going no contact you are that much closer to moving on from him AND you kept you're dignity during your breakup. Win win. Say "yes" to no contact! 5
universalangel Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 It does work..most times..it all depends on how you feel. If you are feeling desperate and needy..that can be smelt by a man 1000 miles away..i have had all my ex's come back when i let go and trust that no contact will work..oh it works! A man can sense when you are ready to move on or just dont care as much..so your right..no matter what..no contact is a win win..you gain self respect and you may hear from him most likely..but congrats to you!
swollpatrol Posted February 11, 2015 Posted February 11, 2015 Doesn't work as well for girls that dump guys however. Guys seem to regret breaking up more often than girls do. 2
Juha Posted February 11, 2015 Posted February 11, 2015 Doesn't work as well for girls that dump guys however. Guys seem to regret breaking up more often than girls do. Agree with this 100% a women may get back in touch but most of the time it's because they want to feel better about themselves because they had a bad experience/relationship or just need to feel better. They don't want to get back together most of the time, unfortunately. Women stay in a relationship most of the time until they are totally done with you and nothing will make them change their mind or feelings for/about you. Almost all the time nc is best for a guy who was broken up with a women as moving on is the best thing because they are not coming back to be with you.
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