scarredloverr Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 (edited) It's now been 4-5 months ever since I broke up with my ex-gf. She broke up with me just one week after uni started, she told me that I was being very possessive and wouldn't let her do what she wants (bear in mind that she had strict parents before and couldn't do much except staying at home, but I was still willing to make it work out). The only thing I ever did was ask for some time to talk like we use to (before we got to uni) and to take care of herself wherever she goes, I don't see where I went wrong. She was 16 and I was 17 when we got together in 2013.. For 2 months I would be crying every night and listening to sad and love songs the whole time, remembering everything I had and planned before all this fell apart. I was quite serious about our relationship and knew that she was the one for me, even introduced her to my family and such. We even talked about our future together and our plans and holidays once she was free from her parents. This is what really tore me apart. Everyone has been telling me 'to move on' and that 'she never deserved me' but it's been very hard for me. She broke up with me when I was at my lowest, trying to settle into a new environment and one of my family members had passed away :/ so yea was left pretty broken till this day.. I realized later on that she had been spreading those rumors that I am possessive and such... Now everyone from my high school hates me except several friends I got left. You don't know why but you can feel this hate people have against you and now it feels I'm all alone. Funny how things go because she use to talk so much crap about some of the girls at school and now it seem like they're all best friends and stuff as though they knew each other for ageeeess... From random comments on their pictures and other posts like that, e.g. bday posts saying have a drink for me etc.. Before at school she use to hate them and hardly ever hung out with them, and I would be there reassuring her that I'm here if she doesn't wanna mingle with 'those girls'. She also started posting lots of pictures showing she's having fun, drunken nights and enjoying her time. Ever since the break-up I have been quite depressed and made only a few friends here. I think I've somehow changed a lot and becomed more and more introverted than the extrovert I was before.. I find myself enjoying my own company more and more everyday and it scares me I don't even think I'll ever love someone that way anymore and I'm really not bothered to meet anyone since to me I discovered it is a waste of time and money after all that happened.. Wasted 2 years.. what a joke.. She started talking to me again and saying how she wants to keep in contact and how she also hopes everyday that in the future we can get back together. she even told me she still loved me no matter what. I think she's used me when we were in high school, she didn't want me but she needed someone since she didn't mingle with these other girls and now that she's free she left me since she didn't need me anymore. And from the texts I've received, in my opinion it she's trying to wrap me around her finger and keep me as a Plan B option just in case whatever she's doing is not working out. Or she wants to come back to me once she's had enough fun. And I'm definitely not into that. Although it may hurt me to think I never want to be with her whether it is now or in the distant future, I think it is a much better option for me. It's been 4-5 months and I'm breaking.. Feels like I'm losing my soul.. Please post your opinions here your help would be soo soo helpful to me Cheers Edited February 10, 2015 by scarredloverr
EgoJoe Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 Tell her that you don't need any connection with people of her caliber and character. Move on! She spread rumors about you to keep you isolated and available! Next!
Recommended Posts