JonjMie Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 I never remember my dreams, never had. But this morning I woke up with my heart pounding and slightly panicked. I'm doing well at 35 days NC and been on a few dates but decided I'm not ready to have a relationship just yet. It may have been alchohol fuelled as I went out last night but my dream I was with my ex at a house I didn't recognise, under the window was a bag of very nice lacy underwear just purchased from a store, I remember in my dream thinking it was for another mans benefit so I was aware of the BU in the dream. I turned round and she was there and we embraced, I felt all the physical benefits of that in my dream and she whispered to me that she loved me, when I said, what did you say, she replied, nothing, she then said more stuff I couldn't make out and I led her to another room so I could hear what she was saying, I woke up then but it's knocked me back. Just that feeling to hold her again would be amazing, feeling a bit sad now, anyone else have dreams post BU ?
SethDamien Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 I dreamt I was seeing my ex (together for 2.5 yrs, 1 year post BU) In my dream, i asked her why it didnt work out and why we couldnt be together again... She told me she never loved me, that i dont deserve her, and that i'll always be miserable my entire life. i guess my dream replayed my memories instead of conjuring up a made up event... Woke up 3am gasping for air, heart racing fast and all i could hear is my heart beat and the sound of my breathing. Tears start falling down my face and i try to cry myself to sleep. 1
Familia Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 After 8 or so days no contact, and I have had a few dreams lately of the ex, can't remember exactly what but I wake up and have to think for a while hang on we aren't together any more. It sucks as you wake up thinking your'e back together or something 1
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