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Caught my ex lying.....should I just move on?


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I dated a girl for a few months about a year ago. We ended up breaking up and have randomly kept in contact. We texted the other night and I told her I'm taking a break from online dating I think. She responded with, "I haven't been online since you." This was a flat out lie because she popped up on my match homepage as having been active within 2 weeks. Why would she lie and say she hasn't tried online dating when she clearly has. We owe nothing to each other and I understand that part it just makes me mad she lied. She wants to finish school before she dates anyone is what she says. I told her I don't want her to play games and keep me strung along and she said "No I wouldn't do that." Two questions:

 

1) Should I move on and forget her since she lied to me?

 

2.) Why would she lie to me about not being on a dating website since we dated over a year ago when I clearly saw she's been on a site recently? Sounds goofy.

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Best reason for that is she's moved on, dating and is sparing your feelings of having knowledge of that.

 

None of this matters tho you're ex's what you guys do offline and online isn't each others business anymore so I wouldnt dwell on it.

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We ended up breaking up

Sounds like reason enough to move on.

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Just so you know, match has a reputation for fabricating how many subscribers have recently been online so I would not trust the website. Some people claim that they have been counted as online just from reading the emails that get sent to them. Maybe they are clicking the pics and then get counted??? Who knows?

 

Anyhow to answer your question... I never go backward. What was the reason you broke up in the first place? Do you want to re-live that scenario over again?

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You should move on because she's an EX, whether or not she lies to you.

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