Jay13094 Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 i ended things with a guy i very much was falling in love with (exclusive, not bf/gf not like theres much difference but anyways..) it was only a short 2 month thing which is why i'm frustrated as towards why I still miss him so much. I finally let him go today, and by that i just removed him from all social platforms and his number b/c he would constantly like everything i posted til this day. He doesn't text me but contacts me for dumb reasons or just likes all my social media posts. He told me he didn't want a relationship b/c he's not ready- but i just found out that the other girl he's talking to (the reason why i ended things) he wants to pursue a relationship and they "want to be with each other" they met for 2 weeks, and then he left the country, he came back- then she's out of the states for 3 months. While she's also talking to other guys, and they're both doing the same thing to each other. Karma will do its thing, and maybe it won't. But i found out how much he lied to me within those 2 weeks that he met her, and how much i was getting played, and then he denied that me and him were never "anything" and just all this stuff for him to not look bad and after all this you'd think i'd be DONE with him. Which is what i've been trying to do esp since today, but i'm still really hurt. And as much as i know we can never be together, it just hurts to know how someone can do that to someone they cared for. What can I do to move the hell on. i'm so sick and tired of waking up sad and stressing over some bs.
darkbloom Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 Just think that all of that lying really had nothing to do with you. The lying just shows his insecurities and his issues. Anytime someone tells you a lie, it will reveal their character far more than it will reveal anything about you. Keep your head up. Someone that really cares about you, will never lie to you and keep things hidden. Why would you want to have anyone in your life that doesn't tell you the truth? That will just set you up for a failed relationship every time. 1
ZiggyZoo Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 Hey, cut yourself some slack, and stop beating yourself up about how you "should" feel. If you're sad that this relationship wasn't what you thought it was, then be sad about it. One of the most helpful things I've learned is that there will come a point where you're grieving what the relationship could have been, missing out on the future you had imagined. So keeping this in mind, it stands to reason that you're going to be upset over something that was only 2 months long, the plans you had made aren't going to happen. And that's a legitimate bummer, I'd say.
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