OrangeSnack Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 We've been going out for two months. I think we are "casually" dating (I'm also seeing other people and I think she is too. We haven't had sex yet). Recently our texts has been short and she's been very unresponsive. I almost think she's losing interest. But anyway, we went out last time, had a good time and planned for something this coming week (tuesday and/or wednesday). I texted her this weekend but again very unresponsive and no returned texts. But I didn't worry too much so I kept doing my things. I decided to text her again this morning, only to find out that she has been sick over the weekend. I sent her a text "sorry to hear you're sick , please let me know if there is something I can do for you or call me if you need anything" Then sent her a cute image of mickey mouse holding flowers saying hope you get well soon. I was planning to ask her to be my valentine on our next date but I feel like I'm being too much of a pest if I keep bothering her. Do you think it's too much if I don't hear back from her on Wednesday, I give her a call and see what's up with our date on Wednesday?
Author OrangeSnack Posted February 9, 2015 Author Posted February 9, 2015 Did she respond to the Mickey Mouse text? Nope. Like I said, our texting communication has slowed down in the past weeks. My gut is telling me somethings up... But then again, I need to stay positive.
Author OrangeSnack Posted February 11, 2015 Author Posted February 11, 2015 Bump I want to ask her to be my valentine but I don't want to wait last minute. We have had something tentatively set for today or tomorrow. Obviously today is a little late and she hasn't responded... Any recommendations?
rester Posted February 11, 2015 Posted February 11, 2015 I would ask her how she's feeling and if she is still up for getting together in the next couple days. Let her know you're okay to reschedule if she's still not feeling well.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 11, 2015 Posted February 11, 2015 I would ask her how she's feeling and if she is still up for getting together in the next couple days. Let her know you're okay to reschedule if she's still not feeling well. This. Give her some space and don't be needy/clingy.
Author OrangeSnack Posted February 11, 2015 Author Posted February 11, 2015 This. Give her some space and don't be needy/clingy. Do you think I should do this today or tomorrow?
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 11, 2015 Posted February 11, 2015 Do you think I should do this today or tomorrow? I'd give her a day -- she might even contact you while you wait. It's possible she's stringing you along/keeping you as a backup -- no way to know for sure. If she continues to ignore you I would just move on.
Author OrangeSnack Posted February 11, 2015 Author Posted February 11, 2015 I'd give her a day -- she might even contact you while you wait. It's possible she's stringing you along/keeping you as a backup -- no way to know for sure. If she continues to ignore you I would just move on. lame lol. If that's the case it looks like im gonna go with plan b on valentines day...
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 11, 2015 Posted February 11, 2015 lame lol. If that's the case it looks like im gonna go with plan b on valentines day... Always keep options open for situations where you get flaked on
Author OrangeSnack Posted February 11, 2015 Author Posted February 11, 2015 Always keep options open for situations where you get flaked on True. But it's hard when you've been going out with her for over two month and your feelings have already developed. I think the hardest part is me letting go...
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