TemporaryForever Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 There's a guy I've been crushing on for a while that works at a store I frequently visit. I could tell he was into me too by the way he acted around me (very nervous all the time). One day, he wrote his number on the back of receipt with a note saying how he wanted to get to know me outside of his job. I saw it when I got home, sent him a text and we made plans for a date. We canceled the date dute to inclement weather. However, after that day I haven't heard from him since. I sent him a text a week later to ask how he was doing and no response. Can I get some insight on why he wrote me a note, wanted to go on a date then suddenly changed his mind?
True Gent Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 All we can do is guess... Maybe he got hit by a bus? Maybe he is interested in someone else, maybe someone else is interested in him? Maybe he is going through a crappy time and just hasn't been able to respond? There could be any number of reasons. All you can do is keep doing what you normally do
OrangeParty Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 All we can do is guess... Maybe he got hit by a bus? Man, that's cold.
True Gent Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 Man, that's cold. It's not meant to be. Just making the point that (anything) could be the reason for his silence. No point over analysing it. That's all.
d0nnivain Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 Even though you cancelled due to weather & not lack of interest, his insecurities probably got the better of him & he talked himself into thinking that you don't like him. Even though you reached out the logic of that fact can't overcome his fears. Try again in person when you next see him in the store.
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