questionsforthenouns Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 My ex left to go work on herself and make herself a better person for me, which really means that she just wants to be single, am I right? (non-rhetorical question) I am on day 9 NC. I have snuck a look at social media a few times, and I definitely have the urge to text her and say "I miss you and I love you so much," but I know that will only make it worse. Anyways, what might be helpful for me and for others going through pain is to give ourselves points for every day that passes in NC. For example, maybe you could treat yourself at every 5 day interval in NC. Like go buy a book or a movie that you've always wanted, or get ingredients for a great dinner that you've always wanted to make. Simple things like that. Just a thought. This is a very difficult situation, and for all those going through this pain, I sympathize with you. I am right there with you. 2
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