whatwhit Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 Long story short. My ex and I moved super fast, dated 6 months, lived together, and whatnot. He broke up with me early last month. Kind of narcissistic and passive aggressive. Dragged out the break up for a month. Had a terrible argument/ he started to pull away. I decided to start NC. He texts me on Saturday which would've been day 7 of NC. He knew I was starting crossfit, so he texted me " started crossfit :)". I was out and about he sees my snapchats so he saw I was out i didn't reply until 4 hours later. I wanted to be friendly I don't know because I have a big heart whatever. I replied, "oh yeah? Very cool! I love it and am already seeing results :)" he replies a little after "way to go!". I didn't reply back kind of a pointless conversation. I do want him back I have never had a connection with someone like him. He's the boy version of me and vice versa. I'm crushed but trying to be strong. Why did he reach out with a pointless text? I could've swore I'd never hear from him again. He bought me tickets to my favorite singer while we were together he mentioned maybe still going while broken up. Should I bring up going? Let him bring it up? Or just go NC still. Any opinions would be great
Toodaloo Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 NC = NO CONTACT. You haven't gone NC you have just stopped talking to him so much. Only you can decide if you want to continue. Bit daft if you two can't have an argument and have to have everything blow up. If you do get back together with him take your time and concentrate on how you speak to each other.
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