Bay392 Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 I've been with a guy for about a year and I have a few questions. First off I'm more in love with this person than anyone from my past. The problem is he seems emotionally empty. I'm not sure if I'm dealing with a bad boy here or not as his sexual past does not scream bad boy. I am his 5th partner, he is my 4th. I am hoping to keep it at that. The thing that frightens me is the fact that most of his past relationships seem to be him just playing games with the women he was with, with most of them ending up heartbroken. His past in other aspects is kind of rocky as well. He has an arrest record, he traveled around quite a bit, his relationship with his family is 50/50, he seems to be sort of afraid of affection, blah blah blah. The thing is when he is nice, he is the sweetest guy I've ever met but when he is mad look out. I'm not used to the type of attitude he has. Regardless my last 3 relationships ended for various reasons, usually people being fake, playing me, being controlling, this is by far the most intense relationship I've ever had. Truth is I've always found myself to be a good woman, and I found myself sleeping with this guy after only 2 months. My last relationships I've always waited 6 months to a year to be sure. This really surprised me. I just want to make sure I'm not getting myself into something I can't get out of. I'm crazy in love here and I believe he is too. Just has a different way of showing it.
stillafool Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 (edited) How old is he and how old are you? You have already been with him a year so why would you not be able to get out of it? Are you two in an exclusive relationship or just dating? Edited February 9, 2015 by stillafool
Author Bay392 Posted February 9, 2015 Author Posted February 9, 2015 (edited) How old is he and how old are you? You have already been with him a year so why would you not be able to get out of it? Are you two in an exclusive relationship or just dating? Exclusive. I'm 26 he's 30. I'm just in love with the guy. I don't even know if I should worry or if these are red flags. I was really led on in my last relationship (lasted 6 months to find out it wasn't anything) and don't want that here. Edited February 9, 2015 by Bay392
LoveRefreshed Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 Why does being emotionally closed off mean you are a bad boy? I am completely nice, genuine, and empathetic and a complete iron wall when it comes to my emotions. Besides, you sound like an 18 year old writing this.. Also, does he look like Will Smith or Martin Lawrence? Then he is a legit bad boy.
smackie9 Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 Take those rose colored glasses off, this guy is bad news. He is unstable and you can't raise children, and pay a mortgage with someone like that. And please please please don't think you can try and "fix" him. That's the worse position you can put yourself in....you will get heart broken for sure. You want to be with someone that treats you the way you want to be treated 100% of the time not 50/50.
smackie9 Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 Exclusive. I'm 26 he's 30. I'm just in love with the guy. I don't even know if I should worry or if these are red flags. I was really led on in my last relationship (lasted 6 months to find out it wasn't anything) and don't want that here. Yes you should be worried.
Author Bay392 Posted February 9, 2015 Author Posted February 9, 2015 Been reading about narcissists and don't want any of that. I understand that sociopaths have an aura that pull women in. 1
smackie9 Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 Been reading about narcissists and don't want any of that. I understand that sociopaths have an aura that pull women in. Ya that's some scary s hit.
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