marcelo.santos Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 Poor english, sorry: Already told my history here. The short: I'm 41, she 30 - have been together for 7 months, 1 month Ago, we had an argument, the next day we were fine, but the another day she was very very distant and I texted her what is going on.. she texted back indifferent almost ignoring me, I become angry - the last message she didnt replied for 5 days, I decided to remove our relationship status from facebook without warning and went NC (my mistake not having a face to face). The very next day she began to like and comment a guy fb page she met before me this same guy we had already an argument about this months ago and she told that his is just a friend and offered a promise to never like or comment his posts - she is still liking and commenting his post after we break up - no idea if they have something. At this point each one accused the other side from breaking. She tried to contact me (1 time per week) but was confused: Sometimes angry, sometimes very polite - I always replied politely but cold - she didnt ask to be back directly, but told me that she is sad as I dont accept her. (?) Now I would like to talk with her - we never talked face to face during the break - I would try again if she apologize for what she did, but dont know if she still wants me. Should I break NC contact her for a talk? The last time she contacted me was last week, but she was a bit cold Should I check her and her friend facebook page to see their interactions? (If she is hanging with this guy, it would hurt but would give me a better direction to move on). Or should I move on and wait to see if she contact me. What should I do?
Elle1975 Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 No. Other than to decline any other prescriptions. And even that, you can simply not replied at all. I don't see the point in the mixed signals of a dead relationship. Either you're together, or you're not, but this limbo business is a waste of time, and a very good way to get hurt even more. 1
Author marcelo.santos Posted February 9, 2015 Author Posted February 9, 2015 Either you're together, or you're not, but this limbo business is a waste of time, and a very good way to get hurt even more. I did some mistakes in the past - it is clear that we are not together, but not sure if she is waiting me to ask her back - as she accused me of breaking with her. I'm confused if I should break the NC to ask a face to face talk and understand what she wants or should I move on and wait she contact me, breaking walls and asking me to be back to her.
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