Oneness Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 For me, having a good day is not feeling any pain, not crying, not obsessing, not missing him, not getting triggered or having flashbacks, no intrusive thoughts...just...nothing. Blessed relief! I can't wait for the day I can say I have not felt any of those things in a loooong time! Sometimes I think the pain will crush me before I get to the point of indifference I long for...but not today. Today there is hope.... 2
Author Oneness Posted February 14, 2015 Author Posted February 14, 2015 (edited) I did not get much response, but wanted to say to those who are struggling today....it does get better. I have gone almost a week now with no crying, no heart clenching pain, no grieving of any kind....maybe I am finally at acceptance! Not going to push it, not going to jinx myself. Just so good to breathe freely finally.... So those of you suffering....do what you have to to heal. There is hope. I thought I was doomed to be in hell for a long, long time...at almost 4 months NC, I can say that everyone can get better. But if it has been years and you are still crying like day one of NC....please get some help! No one deserves to suffer forever after the break up of a relationship... Edited February 14, 2015 by Oneness 1
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