ms.abri Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 helo there..need some help to cut the story short..my boyfriend comment on his ex girlfriend's photo on facebook..his ex holding a teddy bear in that photo..the convo gone like these.. my bf : ohh..I know that bear with you.. his ex : hahaha..I thought you forgot 'lojo' (lojo..the name of the teddy bear combination of their names) lojo is with me anywhereI go..i really love this stuff. my bf : I miss you lorie then I send him message that I was so upset about what I have read..he said it was nothing to him..he says sorry to me..he said he don't entend to hurt me..but I was so upset I ignore his apology..because I don't feel sincerity the way he says it..i told him I was really hurt..then I don't reply to his messages saying sorry that night..i off my phone..and I was crying all night long..bcause that girl often sending him messages that she missed him..am just trying to keep calm but it seems like I exploded last night about that comment...early this morning I try to call my boyfriend but I cannot reach him..his phone is off..i feel so bad...my question is...what should I do..?? did I over react..?? do I have to reach him to say sorry..?? why don't he get rid of that girl instead? we are LdR so that is making me more paranoid right now..help.! :'(
Frank2thepoint Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 Your "boyfriend" misses his ex-girlfriend and still has feelings for her. It also sounds like his ex-girlfriend still harbors feelings for him too. It's really that simple. You just have to find your courage, and end the relationship, because as you said, she keeps sending him messages. Nothing will change, unless you make the change. 3
veggirl Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 totally inappropriate conversation. how long ago did they break up? I would be pissed & worried if my bf was having that conversation w/ an ex. I don't see what YOU should apologize for. I think he should explain himself & his relationship w/ the ex. 1
CrystalShine2011 Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 I agree, completely inappropriate conversation between them! Honestly, I think based on what was written that the best thing would be to move on. Find a man that puts you first! I promise the right one won't make comments on his ex's Facebook page or contact her at all. 1
Honeybunnies Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 Yeah, this would be a red flag for me. It isn't like he posted a comment on a picture of her family, "Miss you all! :)" I don't know, the conversation seemed a bit more intimate and therefore inappropriate. Don't apologize, he's trying to make you feel bad and like you're overreacting.
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