violettemor Posted February 8, 2015 Posted February 8, 2015 (edited) So I know this guy for 10 years probably. He lives in other part of the town so he never hangged out with my brother's regular hood gang. We went to college together. While I were in a college I had a BF and didn't pay much attention to him. He was kind of attractive to me, but not my type of person back then and I was taken. We always talked to each other alone when we were all hanging out with my brother e.g. going out, or coffe shops after libary and stuff... but never alone going out or hanging out. He always texts me for my bday and other stuff, I never have his number. So, I always thanked him and exchanged few texts and stopped texting. 2 years ago we texted all over for a week but he never asked me out, lol. I wasn't interested also back then because I was having a BF, but still... I just started to ignore him eventually. I was never rude, just the conversation stopped naturally. I also texted my brother's best female friend what is with him and how well does he knows him, that I think he was like always having crush on me, but never asked me out directly probably because of my brother. And that we text a lot lately. I wanted to know his intentions, because I was confused with his behavuiour over me. I liked it, I mean. But was taken then... She laughed and told me that he asked her out couple of days ago when they all went to a concert, she told me she blew him off because he is not her type and started to joke about him. I was a bit pissed off, lol! So as I said coversation stopped when I heard that thinking oh well. He texts every chick. Btw he didn't know I had a BF, no one did. Year ago we went on a trip together my friend, him and my 2 girlfriends, it was spontaneous. He was into my friend later, she told me he texted her for a date and that she blew him off. We were pretty evil and we laughed together about it, made some jokes. Ooops! 2 weeks ago... 4 months ago we texted (i'm single now), we made a joke in the group chat and he kind of asked me out. I said ok. 2,3 moths passed by and we didn't meet at all. I "forgot" about it, he stopped mentioning it. I met someone and so on. Month ago I texted him when are we going out because I lost a bet. We texted that week, then he said the day when we were suposed to meet that he is going to visit his cousin A week later I texted him, he said he can't make it that day. I texted ok, then weekend. He said ok, then tomorrow. I didn't reply at all for 2 weeks I was busy. Funny thing is that I told this to my girlfriend "a guy is asking me out, my brother's best friend, but I won't go and text him. I was suposed to meet with him, but I'll go with you tomorrow, sure." Week after that I saw some cool stuff going on in our town, so I texted him and ask him if he would join me. We met the other day at coffe. It was fun. Something changed. Think I have a big crush on him. I think if I wasn't taken in these 10 years from time to time that I'd develop that crush earlier since this was our 2nd meeting solo in these 10 years. Now we text almost everyday, we joke. He is busy. I made a joke about something and he asked me out to do this together. Then he was busy and the weather was soooo bad! Then he told me we could go to a bar instead of doing sports outdoors. I said ok, he said he'll call me. Dude didn't call me at all and said he was busy and exhausted that he has a really stresfull period at his job. I said ok. Today he was suposed to hang out with my brother's friend and me. He said to our mutual friend that he was sick. Okay, I thought I did something wrong and that he was avoiding me. But he texted me some stupid stuff, so we chat all day long. I don't know how does this all sound. I'm not sure if he likes me. I was bitchy to him with ignoring stuff, but it's not like I wasn't replying I just didn't show much interest, so we always stopped. Then I got angry because he asked few of my friends out, for one of my BFFs I told her he is an awesome guy and they should go out, she refused. It's wierd. This guy likes every photo of myself that i post on FB, he always did, but never asked me out directly in this 10 years. Should I go after him and ask him out eventually again? Should I text him first to show him I'm interested. Or should I wait for him to initiate things. I think I confuse this guy and that I should give it a direct shot and go after him. The other problem is my brother. He always teased me that I should marry him because he is a good guy. I always blew off my brother saying like he is crazy and stuff. Sometimes I asked my brother why is he telling me this is it because he likes me or what the ****? My brother never said a thing.. My brother is pretty conervative person who doesn't talk to me much about love issues, lol... Edited February 8, 2015 by violettemor
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