smackie9 Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 Gaeta looks like you are a dog person.....maybe your soul mate is out with his dog at the local dog park.
kendahke Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 Wow that's so sad your own mother can't even support you. My mother is the same way.
smackie9 Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 My mom is the opposite, she knows the value of having a man in your life, especially if he is handy around the house lol. My mom is traditional.....she like having male company.
Author Gaeta Posted February 9, 2015 Author Posted February 9, 2015 I am a member of all the dog parks and dog groups 30 miles around lol. My mom was married at 17, has been married for 50 years. She says if she could start all over again she would be a career woman and be independent and single like me. You know how that works. If you have a family life you dream of a career and if you have a career you dream of a family life.
Author Gaeta Posted February 10, 2015 Author Posted February 10, 2015 So I woman-up and ended it this morning. I am sad a little, there were a lot of things about him I liked but I have put a good 4 months into this since I deleted my profile and zero progress had been made. He understood and we wished each other the best. 5
CarrieT Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 I'm proud of you Gaeta; this one just had 'bad-news' written all over him... 2
mightycpa Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 On the one hand, I don't think it is really any of your business how he deals with his daughters. He knows far more about them than you ever will, and what he did might have been just right. One the other hand, what you have to worry about is whether you can live with it or not. Without reading this entire thread, I'd have to say you can't.
elaine567 Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 One the other hand, what you have to worry about is whether you can live with it or not. Without reading this entire thread, I'd have to say you can't. #55 - Gaeta ended it. 1
mightycpa Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 #55 - Gaeta ended it. Hey, what do you know? I called it right on the money! In all fairness, this was an easy one.
Author Gaeta Posted February 10, 2015 Author Posted February 10, 2015 On the one hand, I don't think it is really any of your business how he deals with his daughters. He knows far more about them than you ever will, and what he did might have been just right.. It has nothing to do with how he handled his daughter the other night. He does not have time and he is not ready to re-invest himself the way I am ready. I had texted him on Feb 8th and I still did not have a reply from him. I didn't feel from him the will to connect with me. I had asked him last week why he wanted to date me and his reply was : cause you're pretty. That is all he had to say after knowing me for 6 months.
Maleficent Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 So I woman-up and ended it this morning. I am sad a little, there were a lot of things about him I liked but I have put a good 4 months into this since I deleted my profile and zero progress had been made. He understood and we wished each other the best. Of course he understood. He clearly wasn't that into you. There is no reason to keep you in secrecy - at least to the 16 year old.
mightycpa Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 It has nothing to do with how he handled his daughter the other night. He does not have time and he is not ready to re-invest himself the way I am ready. I had texted him on Feb 8th and I still did not have a reply from him. I didn't feel from him the will to connect with me. I had asked him last week why he wanted to date me and his reply was : cause you're pretty. That is all he had to say after knowing me for 6 months. Whatever. Still an easy call, and you should probably know better than to dwell on the post-RS recap. The WHY never really matters, as long as you weren't a complete ****.
Emilia Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 I had asked him last week why he wanted to date me and his reply was : cause you're pretty. That is all he had to say after knowing me for 6 months. This is the same guy I presume that didn't manage to see you for 4 weeks. You allow these strangers to stay in your life for far too long. 1
Rejected Rosebud Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 Gaeta I have been seeing what you have to offer the other people who are asking for help on LoveShack and it's so good and helpful, you have so much insight, how about using that for your own benefit now!! :bunny:
Author Gaeta Posted February 10, 2015 Author Posted February 10, 2015 This is the same guy I presume that didn't manage to see you for 4 weeks. You allow these strangers to stay in your life for far too long. You know I am a big multi-dater and I go through men like I go through a pack of chewing gums. This time I didn't multi date. I deleted my profile and gave it time, as so many on here advised me to try. I also wanted to end it 2 times before but he begged for me to give him time blahblah. I accepted to do so. He did not make me do anything I did not want to.
preraph Posted February 10, 2015 Posted February 10, 2015 I think he had to make his daughter babysit and didn't want to hear about it all night, so I have no problem with it. He probably told her to leave him alone and suck it up and she kept whining instead. If it had been an emergency, she would have said "The baby is in the oven" on the first text. 1
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