mandyhappiness1 Posted February 8, 2015 Posted February 8, 2015 (edited) I know this may sound ridiculous. I came across a song on soundcloud and decided to check it out on youtube because I was so struck by the passion and how beautiful the music/singing was. Very poetic. My heart melted when I saw the lead singer. I got butterflies and felt really over whemed. He is so beautiful and he sings with such compassion. Since then I have been listening to his music every night and it has really helped me. I am in total awe of him and this does not usually happen to me as I don't really have that mind set but for some reason I am really mesmerized by him. I'm in my mid twenties so its not a teen crush. I'm not into having crushes on famous people as I find the whole celebrity culture pretty vacuous to be honest. he's not famous. more underground talent. I checked him out on facebook and have been deciding whether to message him to tell him how much is music has helped me emotionally. but I don't know if I have the courage to do it. My heart is usually really picky so i am amazed that I feel this way with someone who I haven't met in real life. I meet really great guys but i don't pursue it because I cant seem to get this guy out of my head. it's like he has the face I have always pictured the guy I would really fall for would have so hard to explain everything about him his facial expressions, singing passion etc.this is so rare for me. Please can someone help and advise me as to what I should do ..I believe in the law of attraction but not sure if this is stupid as not only do i not know him but he lives far away. I would really appreciate it as crazy as it may seem Edited February 8, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator please use punctuation and paragraphs
SleeplessIn Posted February 8, 2015 Posted February 8, 2015 Can't think of any reason why you can't text or email him to tell him how much you like his music and the emotion he brings to it. Who doesn't like fan mail? You could also ask if he/his band might be playing anywhere near your area in the not too distant future, because you'd very much like to "catch them live". Whether or not he'll respond is a whole other thing, but asking a legitimate question ups the chances he will.
Author mandyhappiness1 Posted February 8, 2015 Author Posted February 8, 2015 Thank you for the advice i think ill find the courage to message
Derek1979 Posted February 8, 2015 Posted February 8, 2015 This is the modern version of love. If doesn't matter who the man is, but that you have butterflies for him, whatever the hell they are.
ExpatInItaly Posted February 8, 2015 Posted February 8, 2015 Go ahead and message him. No harm in doing so. Just keep your feet planted firmly on the ground. You're only seeing a very small part of him. He may be a wonderful man, or he may be total sh*t-head who happens to have musical talent. He might not be single. He may respond or he may not. If you can keep a realistic perspective on it, I don't see the risk in sending him a message letting him know you enjoy his music.
ktya Posted February 8, 2015 Posted February 8, 2015 I completely love a girl ive never met, met her here actually. Its strange and bizarre but wth, just go for it. I get to meet her in april and i couldnt be more excited, its been a year of chatting. Back in the 50s people wrote letters. Today we have the internet. Love is love, you gotta try. Send him mail. Its so special receiving something you can touch. :-)
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