Conundrum Posted April 2, 2005 Posted April 2, 2005 Well my weakness finally hit after 5 weeks of NC. She has not talked to me since she broke it off. I tried to talk the first week and fell flat on my face. Anyways, I get this grand idea to IM her and tell her what I feel. Here it is: Me: took awhile, but I now know why we arent together. Her away message: Sick. Me: You always told me your dream. I was just too jaded to see it. I then sign off. I dont really know why I did this. I knew she would not contact me back, and she hasnt. Part of it was for my own closure. She never did tell me why she broke it off but i have ideas. I was just wondering if this would push her away further, or make me sound needy and pathetic. I didnt tell her I miss her. I didnt tell her I wanted her back. I didnt tell her I hope she feels better. I did this for me. I never sign online, so this may be a suprise for her. She may not have even read it, who knows. Anyways, I just wanted to know from someone else's perspective how they would react to this. Thanks. Full story on the breakup is on "typical or untypical" and "breaking someone's dream"
greenhorn Posted April 3, 2005 Posted April 3, 2005 Hi there, Don't worry much, love does makes us do irrational things. You IM her and she didn't reply so forget it there, look forward. Keep your NC as it was don't think much that you broke it.. Face forward in life and keep walking and you would get better. tc
pippen_2k Posted April 3, 2005 Posted April 3, 2005 Nah man what you did wasnt that bad.. we all do it after the break up.. hell I was doing it like 8 weeks after my girl left me... and I too got no responses to them sort of messages... our emotions get the better of us sometimes and we just cant help ourselves, hence we send them messages.... U didnt say anything bad so just leave it at that.. Good Luck
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