you_can_not_see_me Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 This is a trend that keeps repeating itself for me. When I find a certain girl attractive it seems like the girl doesn't share that attraction, and when a girl seems interested in me, its always a girl I don't find attractive I know the knee jerk reaction would be to say that maybe I have really high standards or I m going for girls out of my league, but the simple fact of the matter is that I simply can not bring myself to be attracted to girls I am not attracted to and obviously it would be a waste of time. I tried online dating a few months ago and this tread was in full force. Every girl who bothered getting back to me was a girl I wasn't attracted to, and none of the ones I was attracted to ever got back to me. I m all for not giving up and keeping at it, but I can't shake the feeling that something is fundamentally messed up about my love life, its like its missing a screw or something.
preraph Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 I still think you'd have better luck dating real-life and not OLD because people doing OLD all seem to be shooting for the stars, just in case they get lucky, but then they don't get lucky. You'll have better luck staying off OLD and staying busy joining activities and groups who go do things, whatever your interests are. Take dance lessons or go places where there's dancing but it's not too noisy to talk. Just stay social and making friends and it expands your network of women as well.
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