stellamaria Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 We've been in strict NC for a week now, after a final row. He has blocked me on some IM and I have blocked him on others. Neither of us has communicated. He sent me a happy birthday message, saying I could send him pictures if I wanted. It was a running joke with us that I sent him random pictures throughout the day of things I was doing or had seen. The joke: Man goes to Mars and takes 5 photos. Woman goes to the bathroom and takes 37 photos. Anyway. I should have ignored the message, but I replied "thank you."
Light Breeze Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 Is this you affair partner? If so, ignore, ignore, ignore. Think of your husband and cut all contact.
Author stellamaria Posted February 7, 2015 Author Posted February 7, 2015 Is this you affair partner? If so, ignore, ignore, ignore. Think of your husband and cut all contact. Yes, it is. I am going back to NC. I dont know why I replied. I love my husband and want to make it work with him.
Light Breeze Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 You're suffering from addiction withdrawal from your affiair. Go strict NC, as in, block, delete, forget. Get rid of all things that remind you of him. If you remove every line of communication and things that remind you of him, the less you'll crave contact with him. As I understand your hubby knows of the affair? If then, tell him of this text and that you're going to block him in everything and will work on your marriage. 2
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