Author Photofinish Posted February 9, 2015 Author Posted February 9, 2015 So I sorta made a put up a snap chat of a selfie of me saying that I was going to take my damn self out.... and a status about getting bored (Undirect) A little immature of me I know... He asked me if I was getting bored of him. I just told him that I just think it sucks that we dont really do anything. He said that he will can change that and added a smilie face . yay. I hopefully start work tomorrow so I can start paying my own way for these dates so it can be affordable for both of us.
contact1 Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 Glad to see passive aggressiveness still exists in the dating world
Author Photofinish Posted February 9, 2015 Author Posted February 9, 2015 Glad to see passive aggressiveness still exists in the dating world I usually really dont like doing that and tell him straight up but I didnt want to look like I was using him by being all, "Why dont you take me out places and pay for me?" It's as bad as it sounds
CarrieT Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 It's as bad as it sounds So is the way you have just manipulated him... :rolleyes::roll eyes: Seriously, why don't you have a quiet, nice and honest discussion with him? You can do it without being whining or expecting him to pay for everything. Google "Free Things To Do" in your hometown. You can find excursions and stuff that is really fun that doesn't cost a lot of money. Meet him half-way and explain that just going to his place or just going to yours feels limiting. You can be frank that you like to go out but understand that neither of you might be able to afford it so you have found stuff you can do together that doesn't cost a lot of money. Be proactive in helping to find a solution versus passive aggressive. The relationship will last longer that way... 4
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