chelle21689 Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 How do men rally feel about that really pretty girl with the sexy perfect body posting nothing but photos and selfies of herself on her account and half naked pics that are almost porn? Of course they look good but does any part of it annoy you? Like I see hot men and women with great boss but when all they do is post photos of nothing but themselves I think it's a huge turn off they have nothing else goin. Like there's a super pretty sexy fitness model and she posts sexy pics but her profile consists of other stuff too so it seems like she has other stuff to offer than just her body.
BeatsByDirk Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 That's entertaining for like 5 minutes. If they're too much work then it isn't worth it to me. I'm down to do a lot of work but if someone is putting endless energy into beauty then our priorities aren't in sync and I won't find them interesting or attractive on a deeper level. 1
6Pack Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 I do like to look at their photos, but beyond the upfront physical attraction, they are usually very empty people who dont have anything to say, nothing to offer. To me, attraction, is *initially* physical, but after the initial physical attraction, a woman turns me on with her personality and her *MIND*. If a girl has nothing intellectual to offer, or has no personality, then there is no attraction. I will struggle to interact with her, and the like other poster said, its too much work. 1
JOkER2 Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 When I c those type of photos I do enjoy it. But when I c a guy with his shirt off flexing I feel it's kinda pathetic. So if I look at it rationally without bias chicks taking all these selfies is no different. I think it's fine if u want to post a pic of yourself as a profile pic but I c people posting pics on facebook of themselves every day. No need. The probably don't have the highest self esteem and want people commenting on the pics saying they r beautiful because they r having trouble with something or feel un-important
The Mighty Quinn Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 I do like to look at their photos, but beyond the upfront physical attraction, they are usually very empty people who dont have anything to say, nothing to offer. To me, attraction, is *initially* physical, but after the initial physical attraction, a woman turns me on with her personality and her *MIND*. If a girl has nothing intellectual to offer, or has no personality, then there is no attraction. I will struggle to interact with her, and the like other poster said, its too much work. I have a bit of an ethical problem with this comment but it's one that is prevelant in our culture. I think it's overly harsh and judgemental to say that someone who doesn't articulately express themselves online "has nothing to offer" and are "empty people". You can't make that pre-determined judgement without actually knowing the person as a human being face to face in REAL LIFE. What bothers me is you freely admit to enjoying their pictures but then you dehumanize their character based on absolutely..really..nothing.Because you don't even know them. Maybe they don't have anything you want. That doesn't mean they don't have anything to offer someone else or the world. Let it also be noted that as guys tell us how much a woman needs a 'good personality" and all that other jazz..two seconds after he finds such a lady, he's looking at other hot girls on the internets anyway. You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. 5
SycamoreCircle Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 I can get excited at such profiles, but most usually I know it's a dead end. I've never had anything to do, in my real life, with very "manufactured" women. What really whirrs my propeller are women who have naturally beautiful assets physically---hair, eyes, lips, skin, curves but they seem secondary to who she is. She reads, she likes cinema, she travels, she has a hobby like baking or making something with her hands. She can crack a joke without too much force. Photos do really tell a lot. I went out with a woman who had one photo of herself standing very awkwardly. I thought it weird. Nevertheless I asked her out. During our third date, she hung her head into her chest the entire time. Turns out she was hiding a pimple. I told her I didn't care. She continued to do it the entire night, even wrapping the lower part of her face with a shawl. She looked ridiculous. She stopped being engaging during the conversation, as well. I didn't go out with her again. She flipped and sent me all sorts of frantic messages. I told her why I'd called things off. She said, "many men find my awkwardness charming and a turn on..." Not me, honey. I guess what I'm saying is a person's poise and physicality in a photo, be it very natural or very stilted, tells a lot about them as a person.
Moy Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 If I see a super hot woman on OLD I skip past immediately. Why isn't she being approached in real life? It's a red flag to me, as POF etc. is for scum like me!!!!!
Moy Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 (edited) What really whirrs my propeller are women who have naturally beautiful assets physically---hair, eyes, lips, skin, curves but they seem secondary to who she is. She reads, she likes cinema, she travels, she has a hobby like baking or making something with her hands. She can crack a joke without too much force. There are two women from work who are BEAUTIFUL, like model material...but they are both LOVELY people and are popular with both sexes in the office. Their looks are of secondary importance to their personalities. The whole 'hot women are b*tches but bigger women are nice' thing is a myth in my experience. Selfie addicts can do one, though. Edited February 7, 2015 by Moy
Andy_K Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 How do men rally feel about that really pretty girl with the sexy perfect body posting nothing but photos and selfies of herself on her account and half naked pics that are almost porn? Of course they look good but does any part of it annoy you? Like I see hot men and women with great boss but when all they do is post photos of nothing but themselves I think it's a huge turn off they have nothing else goin. Like there's a super pretty sexy fitness model and she posts sexy pics but her profile consists of other stuff too so it seems like she has other stuff to offer than just her body. I don't judge. How someone looks tells you very little about their personality, except perhaps whether they're serious about health and fitness (which is a big plus). Being a touch vain myself, I don't see anything wrong with someone who is attractive flaunting it on their own profiles on facebook, instagram, online dating, and whatever else. If you've got it make the most of it. Those who don't like it don't have to look. If they continually post things which demonstrate they are a total airhead, then sure I lose interest. Otherwise though, attractive people are the same as average ones on the inside, and have just as much chance of being interesting/intelligent etc. Live and let live 1
TheGuard13 Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 Lot of politically correct answers here. In my experience, a lot of men want to sleep with women who do what you do, but don't want much else. Partially because a lot of men (people in general) are too lazy to look beneath the surface and assume there's not much to these people. But when you post nothing but selfies and sexy pics, you are sending a very clear message to the opposite sex, whether you know it or not.
Author chelle21689 Posted February 7, 2015 Author Posted February 7, 2015 But when you post nothing but selfies and sexy pics, you are sending a very clear message to the opposite sex, whether you know it or not. I agree with this. It's for men too...I think it's annoying if a guy seems really into himself and nothing else. Also, "Roses-Outkast" perfect haha
EveAFlame Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 I see men flocking to the meanest girls if they are hot. They SAY they need a sweet girl with a nice personality but that doesn't seem to play out in meatspace. Some men will accept the worst behavior from a woman if she's hot enough. Very confusing.
Author chelle21689 Posted February 7, 2015 Author Posted February 7, 2015 Same could be said for women and *********s/bad boys... that Taylor Swift song doesn't help lol
Versacehottie Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 Reality: guys will definitely be infatuated by this. On top of good looks or a good smoke screen, the vain-ness initially tells the other person you think you're the sh*t! Which people buy for the most part. It's a proven fact that people attribute a lot a good characteristics to good looking people and want to befriend them. Even if girls (towards other girls) do so reluctantly at first. Or even if guys (towards girls) give a politically correct answer. On top of all that, when an amazing looking girl is down to earth, more than a few times I've heard from guys who think she is out of their league (looks wise obviously), "what is wrong with her???!!!". Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Nothing is wrong with her. Anyway, as I think andy K said, something to the effect of the totality of the content they post will give you the real story. I do find that in the long run, any guy worth it, bores or gets annoyed with true vapid-ness and complete high-maintenance-ness--even if initially he is intrigued by it. And they are!
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