cbplayer Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 Background story : I'm not particularly good at interacting with girls and I often get my messages ignored. So, I'd appreciate if I could get some advice here. Previously, I was told to stop using tinder to find dates because it's not an app that people take very seriously. I figured that I should be able to use it for hookups. So, I want to try and use it for that purpose. I matched with a girl at my university. I'm 21 and she's 18 btw, if it matters. So far this is our convo: Me : I usually don't compliment girls when I just meet them but you have pretty good taste in men. Her : If you could sleep with anyone in the world, who would it be and why is it me? How should I proceed? She's an attractive Hispanic girl and I'm very attracted to Hispanic women. I think it looks promising so far and I don't want to mess things up.
GTR King Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 Ok my advice is to take things slow and get to know her... Speak to her on tinder for a few days then get her number and arrange a date... If the 1st date goes well just say to her you had a nice time and would like to see you again etc... Then message her and suggest what you would like to do on a 2nd date and what days you are free... Then let her decided if she wanna meet up again and when she can see you... But if she only wants you for sex then be careful about what you do etc... Just tell her why you would sleep with her etc and see what she says etc...
Author cbplayer Posted February 7, 2015 Author Posted February 7, 2015 We spoke a bit more Me : I usually don't compliment girls when I just meet them but you have pretty good taste in men. Her : If you could sleep with anyone in the world, who would it be and why is it me? Me : Haha. Out of all the "her name"'s in the world, I think you're my favorite. Have you ever been with a black guy? Her : Yes I have. I'm the only "her name" you know. What kind of messages should I send her?
preraph Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 She sounds like she wants to hook up. I think you should tell her, "I'd love to meet you. Would you like to go for a drink?" Then once at the drink, you'll be able to gauge whether she's really comfortable going somewhere and having sex or is actually looking to get to know and trust you better and also you can ask her if she's looking for a relationship or a hookup and tell her you're really more about the hookup right now. Remember girls, if they have any sense, are going to have some fear about going to some guy's apartment they don't know.
Author cbplayer Posted February 8, 2015 Author Posted February 8, 2015 Yesterday afternoon I said "I'd love to meet you. Would like to grab coffee sometime? You go to "the name of my university" right? It's been almost 12 hours and she hasn't replied. Did I do something wrong? I'm interested in hooking up with her.
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