Koans Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 (edited) So I dumped my ex. I have passive aggressive disorder? We've been together for 3 years. Anyways I wasnt happy so I immediately jumped to another girl. I wasn't happy. I resurfaced through social media 5 months later from the break up after dumping my rebound girl. But my ex didn't want anything to do with me. She said, "if you're serious, don't text, msg, or add me. Call me and only call me." few months later I added her friend on instagram but she blocked me out the blue. The next month after, I noticed she untagged and deleted of what was left of our "connection" through facebook, even though we werent friends. Im not sure anymore so me and my friend blocked her. Although I am still attached in some ways even after already dating 2 girls in a span of less than a year since the break up. I follow her on snapchat even tho she doesnt follow me back. I guess it's public. SO her birthday just passed i didnt say anything. Today is my birthday and on her snapchat it says, "Happy birthday 'my name'". I was shocked. I don't know what to make of it. It's like she moved on but still cares to remember? Any input much appreciated Edited February 6, 2015 by Koans
Chi townD Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 Well, you didn't listen to her. She said if you were serious, then don't message, text or add; just call her. Then what did you do? You added her to something and she blocked you. She told you not to do that! Anyways. Don't read into the Happy Birthday text, that's all it was. Just a Happy B-day text no different than what you got from about 20 other people. 1
dyna85 Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 It seems clear to me that you didn't want your ex that badly if you didn't call her. How is she playing games again? It seems like she specifically asked you to step up by calling her and for whatever reason, you didn't. What's holding you back from contacting her?
Author Koans Posted February 7, 2015 Author Posted February 7, 2015 I just needed space. I do admit I didn't communicate with her and I made a bad decision in the way I ended things out the blue. I fear rejection. I mean, she looks like she moved on by untagging me. I'm not much of a confrontational person.
Seeker12 Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 You did what you did, she gave you a pretty straight up way of fixing things, you didnt do what she told you. Just let it go and learn from it mate, i think going back now youll do more harm than good. 1
hoping2heal Posted February 7, 2015 Posted February 7, 2015 Hi Koans, It sounds more like you were playing games than she ever was. She wasn't going to be messed around with and regardless of you dropping hints that you wanted her, you never really followed them up with anything. She didn't take the bait, smart of her. She might just be being mature but also, you were together for 3 years. It was you who degraded that when you dumped your gf to jump into the arms of another one because you were bored (which, apparently didn't work out).
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