Otter2569 Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 Ive been dating this woman for several months and its going great. We dont live that close to each other and I find myself driving to see her 90% of the time. In fairness I do have a more flexible schedule. We both have kids but we spend most weekends together because the kids get a long great. We have plans for this weekend (no kids) and she was coming to stay at my place but yesterday she expressed that she is nervous about coming over and that she doesnt feel welcome. This made me feel like complete crap. I honestly don't even want her to come down now since I will be walking on pins and needles the whole time wondering if she is "comfortable". If i say not to come down that will lead to a big issue as well. I know she had a crappy ex who rarely let her stay over and if he did she had to stay on her side of the bed (WTF?) but she says we have the best relationship and the last time she was here we had a really nice time. All I can ask is WTF?
Author Otter2569 Posted February 6, 2015 Author Posted February 6, 2015 OMC, why didnt I think of that?!?!
Mrin Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 OMC, why didnt I think of that?!?! Yes. Ask her this. You need to have a real conversation 1
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