digger Posted April 2, 2005 Posted April 2, 2005 Lemme see if i can word this right: Better answered by someone whose been there... When you split up, and from day 1 and absolutely HATE the other person, distance themselves, and pretty much throw everything away you ever had... is it really hate? I mean, cant you only hate the one you love/loved? i mean Ive had enemies, and yet I never HATED them to the extent hate is. I could pass em on the street and never felt that seering 'just wanna kill em" feeling. I just didnt care after a while, kind of a let by gones be bygones feel without expressing it. is it a case of 'you only hurt the ones you love' or what?
Ladyjane14 Posted April 2, 2005 Posted April 2, 2005 Are you talking about how your ex-wife treats you? Because if you are, I doubt that she hates you. It's more likely that she knows you are holding on to hope for reconciliation, and doesn't want to encourage you. It would be CRUEL on her part to allow you to believe that she would reconcile, if in her heart she knows she won't. If that's the case...sometimes it's kinder to slap a hand than to hold it.
Recommended Posts