tgiuliano2014 Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 I was with my ex for 7 years..she had to small children when I met her..2 and 1 I raised them since their father was not around..she comes from control and molestation and never had a relationship before me..I come from a mother married 5 times and using men..we got together purely for sexual reasons..she use to hit me and not able to communicate..so I started to text other women..the hitting stop but the lack of communication from her didnt..sex was always amazing..chaos breeds good sex I guess..I tried hard to help her grow get a good job her license ..I was resentful for always doing everything though any money she made was always given to me..we broke up a few times and she always slept with guys while I tried to patch things up..the last year I was doing a lot better with not cheating and would mess up when something big happen and she was caught walking with another man one night..we broke up as she laughed about it...no clue if the lather was a way to hide sadness..they broke up and she asked me to come back..so I did..one day I picked her up from work and witness her laughing with another guy..this turned out to be the last guy and I left again they break up..as of now I am trying to get communication going some days she response after I send novels with little effort from her. .she says she still cares but wished we never hurt each other..I'm hurt..feeling neglected hurts..and just looking for some good advice...thanks for reading..
Zoe Lilith Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 I was with my ex for 7 years..she had to small children when I met her..2 and 1 I raised them since their father was not around..she comes from control and molestation and never had a relationship before me..I come from a mother married 5 times and using men..we got together purely for sexual reasons..she use to hit me and not able to communicate..so I started to text other women..the hitting stop but the lack of communication from her didnt..sex was always amazing..chaos breeds good sex I guess..I tried hard to help her grow get a good job her license ..I was resentful for always doing everything though any money she made was always given to me..we broke up a few times and she always slept with guys while I tried to patch things up..the last year I was doing a lot better with not cheating and would mess up when something big happen and she was caught walking with another man one night..we broke up as she laughed about it...no clue if the lather was a way to hide sadness..they broke up and she asked me to come back..so I did..one day I picked her up from work and witness her laughing with another guy..this turned out to be the last guy and I left again they break up..as of now I am trying to get communication going some days she response after I send novels with little effort from her. .she says she still cares but wished we never hurt each other..I'm hurt..feeling neglected hurts..and just looking for some good advice...thanks for reading.. This seems to be a real chaos! That chaos that you call a relationship is based on violence, betrayal, emotional and physical abuse...you had 7 years of good sex caused by chaos! I guess now it's over. There is much more to relationship than that! If any of this is true, then you shouldn't feel bad or sad, on the contrary - you're free! Enjoy it! Good luck, I hope it all works out for you. 1
Author tgiuliano2014 Posted February 7, 2015 Author Posted February 7, 2015 Thanks for the input..just wanted to share..
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