k_10241c Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 i have known this guy for almost 2 years, and we have been texting since then. he has a full-time job and bk to school for part time started jan. he gave me a heads up in dec that he is going to be very busy and don't have time to hang out with me when school starts. i haven't seen him for almost 2 weeks so i told him i wanted to see him last week but he just rejected me saying he doesn't have time and apologized. i was actually a bit upset. i know hes very busy, but i guess i am just not on his priority list right now. since he started school, he doesn't text me as much as before which i don't really mind cause i know hes busy. but what got me really upset is that he has been online many times and decided not to read my msg and took him more than 6 hrs or the next day to reply my text. so i decided not to reply his text on monday and thot he would send me another text later on and ask me whats wrong. now its thursday and i got nothing from him. should i reply him now? he has asked me out a few times, to make it officially before, but i said no because i wasn't that into him. now that i know i like him a lottttt, do you think he is not interested anymore?
d0nnivain Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 He may simply be busy. If you are home & he's at school, the free time he has may be consumed by people in closer proximity. If you like him, see where things are when he comes home for summer but until then don't press the issue
kendahke Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 (edited) i have known this guy for almost 2 years, and we have been texting since then. he has a full-time job and bk to school for part time started jan. he gave me a heads up in dec that he is going to be very busy and don't have time to hang out with me when school starts. i haven't seen him for almost 2 weeks so i told him i wanted to see him last week but he just rejected me saying he doesn't have time and apologized. i was actually a bit upset. i know hes very busy, but i guess i am just not on his priority list right now. since he started school, he doesn't text me as much as before which i don't really mind cause i know hes busy. but what got me really upset is that he has been online many times and decided not to read my msg and took him more than 6 hrs or the next day to reply my text. so i decided not to reply his text on monday and thot he would send me another text later on and ask me whats wrong. now its thursday and i got nothing from him. should i reply him now? he has asked me out a few times, to make it officially before, but i said no because i wasn't that into him. now that i know i like him a lottttt, do you think he is not interested anymore? that is playing against you. Had you not done that, he may have made room in his schedule for you. As it is now, he's too busy to accommodate someone who has blown him off. Someone who tells me "no" gets dropped way down on my priority list and I move on to someone else who is into me. No, I'm not going to respond to their texts as if they're someone that I know is into me. I'll get to it when I have time. He ignored your message because you've told him no, so why invest in that direction? Sometimes, you only get one chance at things--sometimes you hit the mark, sometimes you blow it. That's life. You carry on. Ease up off of him. He can't be/give you what you need. Check for him in May when the semester is over. See where he is and tell him then of your change of heart. Right now, he's not checking for you. Edited February 6, 2015 by kendahke 1
mightycpa Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 He's clearly not as interested as you'd like him to be. I think he's starting to see you as more of a pain in the ass than someone he's willing to carve time out for. 1
LoveRefreshed Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 I sometime wish we could post little pictures. I have this one in mind with jackie chan and a 'wtf' or something. So, this guy asked you out a few times, you said no. You ignored his message expecting him to send you another one? What is in your head girl? You've treated him like he was not that important to you. You done messed up with him, just find someone else.
irresolute Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 Not interested and you were just a nice distraction. Next. I'm a full time student, full time job, lots of things to do and even I'm busy I have time for The people I care. Busy equals uninterested. He was clear though.
LoveRefreshed Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 Not interested and you were just a nice distraction. Did you read the last line where he asked her out more than once. He was her distraction and he wised up and moved on.
irresolute Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 Did you read the last line where he asked her out more than once. He was her distraction and he wised up and moved on. Yes, and I'm still thinking he's not interested. I reply selectively to texts but they still text me all the time, even though I don't reply
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