rollercoaster11 Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 I feel so miserable right now..not only am I recovering from some kind of bug which cause me to miss two days from work but I feel like I broke the NC rule. Im typing this out and i really don't have the energy to continue but I had to say this. Im a new member on here so i really need everyone's opinion. Anyway I had to call in sick so my ex..who so happens to be one of the supervisors took my messages... both days. I kind of suspected he would which is why I hesitated for so long before picking up the phone to call.Afterward i felt really bad because just hearing his voice set me back, along with all the thoughts like does he care that Im sick which made me sicker because i was thinking about that. It is so hard some days going to work and seeing him. Breakups are hard enough and really hard when you have to see the person everyday. Any advice or questions are welcomed. I look for job within the company as much as I can because I feel that may be my only relief. I can't continue this way. Anyone else out there dated someone on the job and broke up, and how did you get through it.
coolheadal Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 NC - no contact or no communication what so ever! Not good to date anyone from work as you can clearly see why. Well at lease the Ex BF also your boss care to see if your where alright. Best get a transfer to a different dept in your company. Otherwise you'll just lowering yourself to bad health and weakness if you continue like this. Get better and put this affair to one side. Think about that new transfer. Someone else will come along real soon.
darkbloom Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 I met my ex at work. We had to work together for two months after the breakup. When you get to work, leave everything at the door. Pretend you're okay and only talk to him about work. If that means you need to cry after work or hit something then do it. But don't show how upset you are at work. That's like blood in the water. Also, make a list of everything negative you thought about your ex. write it down and keep it with you. Read it when you want to break NC or you're feeling down. It will make you feel better. Whatever you do, don't beg, do not be dragged into non work conversations. Keep your head up. I stalked LS on my lunch breaks to keep it all together. The stories on here made me feel better.
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