Cupid's Puppet Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 After my breakup, I felt (and still do) like my ex was the only man I could ever love. But I hear people say a lot in the breakup discussions that the world is full of people and to believe you can love just one is irrational. My question is, "Are people really marrying their soul mates then?" If people can love many times, then why choose one man to spend the rest of your life with? It makes monogamy seem unnatural to me. This is what makes me feel like I can't love another man. I told the last one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. But you are telling me that I can want to spend the rest of my life with another man? And if that fails, then another man? I can't imagine getting that close and open to another man again. I think I am burnt out. However, I am a little stressed because I know time waits for no one, and I don't want anymore regrets in life. But I really have no interest in being in a relationship anymore because I feel like I lost the best one I'll ever have. Well, thanks to whoever have read this. I just needed to get this out.
Rejected Rosebud Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 I think that people have more than one soul mate, and even your great friends can be soul mates too. I don't see that it affects monogamy, if you want to be with one person or many people that is each person's decision. I'm sorry you are hurting, I know it feels like you won't love again but you really will!! 2
Satu Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 Each man in all men. All men in each man. Consider.
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