Author jessgirl23 Posted February 11, 2015 Author Posted February 11, 2015 You drive over there & knock on the door. Hey, that's just me. I'm old fashioned. You did what you thought was best for you. What difference does it make if I disagree with your delivery method? You asked me what I thought. I told you. The fact that you didn't like what I said doesn't make what you did wrong for you. It just makes my opinion & methods different then yours. He's away at work on a roadtrip and is staying in a hotel with his coworkers, I could not to that or I would but by his lack of responses to my texts, I feel he wouldn't even care for me to do that. Also, I did not want to call him while at work and stop him from working, I didn't want to get his response to this situation also because I know he'd suck me back in again by words.
acrosstheuniverse Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 Well, I think your message was largely unnecessary, it just made you look weak. We've all been there, we've all sent the person who doesn't want us anymore a 'you will never meet anyone who loves you like I do, you'll never meet someone who is as good for you as I am, I'd have given you the world blah blah', from the outside it looks embarrassing, when you expend SO much energy on telling someone it's over, when the primary reason it's over is because they don't care at all. But the most important thing is that you took control, you ended it, told him you wouldn't stand for it anymore and put an end to your misery of constantly wondering where it was going, and how he felt about you. Good work girl. More impressive than women who let it drag on for months and years, always hoping the guy will step up. You saw he wasn't, and decided you deserved better. For that, I congratulate you.
kendahke Posted February 12, 2015 Posted February 12, 2015 disappearing and blocking him would have been the better route because let's face it: if he really cared about how you felt, none of this would have fallen out in experience the way it did. Chances are, he got to the 6th word and deleted it without reading the rest of it. I would have if I'd gotten such a message. Well, what's done is done. Time to stop obsessing over him and move on.
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