DRStone Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 So my extremely difficult time on online dating was proving useless and just down right sh*t. But somehow I managed to talk to 1 girl and I've struggled to keep the conversation going (Naturally bad at it) but by some miracle I've actually done something right.. I want to ask for her number so we can talk more but I can't figure out a non weird / creepy way to ask for it? Any help?
adiamond Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 You can be like, Hey, would you be interested in going to_________ with me this weekend or _________? Here is my number____________. Text me so we can set up a time.
4everloveu Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 Perhap you give her your number see if she want to call you. Just tell her that you would like to get to know her more and if she prefer to talk on the phone.
d0nnivain Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 Write something along the lines of "we've been communicating so well via the site & e-mail but I'd like to hear your voice. My # is 1-123-555-4567. Would you mind giving me yours?" Remember you are asking for her phone #, not her SS#, her bank account # or the launch codes to her country's missile defense system.
PogoStick Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 I ask for numbers all the time, and always give mine when doing so. Simple: Hey I'm enjoy our messages and would like to meet you for a drink. Can I call you to figure out a plan? My number is xxxxx. What's yours? You should do this very early in any online interaction. If she's never going to want to meet then why waste your time messaging for a week or two? 1
Chris715 Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 Get her number, don't give her yours. Trust me, you might not hear from her. I briefly did OLD dating and when I wanted their number I was really forward about it. "Hey can I get your number so we can text? Way easier than always having to check up on here :)" Or something along those lines. Probably worked 80-90% of the time for me.
PogoStick Posted February 6, 2015 Posted February 6, 2015 Giving my number when asking for theirs works just fine. First, I feel it is less scary to give your number to someone who offers their own. Psychologically, it says, you already know my number, it's only fair to give me yours. Second, about 50% of the time, the woman texts me first. I send her an email or message with my phone number, and ask for hers. Often she doesn't even email me her phone number, she just texts me directly. "Hi Pogo, this is Jane from POF". I love this as it tells me she's sincerely interested. The other half of women will give me their number online and then wait for me to initiate the first text.
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