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Wife told me no more contact with OM


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Thanks for the tough love. Contact has ceased. We will address our marital issues and reach a mutual decision. No animosity.

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Thanks for the tough love. Contact has ceased. We will address our marital issues and reach a mutual decision. No animosity.

 

That means divorce?

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Thanks for the tough love. Contact has ceased. We will address our marital issues and reach a mutual decision. No animosity.

 

It's super great the contact has ceased. Thing is though, saying it is "too little too late" would be the massive understatement of the year. Sort of like saying you might get a "tad" wet if you decide to plunge yourself into Niagara Falls.

 

What marriage issues are there left to address at this point? She is a cheater, a liar, she breaks no contact. What mutual decision is there to reach? Whatever she decided now about your marriage should be irrelevant. Her opinion on it matters as much as the opinion of the nearest ant to you: not at all.

 

Make a clean break, regardless of what she decides she wants. The only decision she should have left to make is whether to sign the divorce papers in blue ink or black.

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That means divorce?

 

I took it to mean she has broken all contact with the OM.

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I'm taking it to mean "she has told me contact has ceased and for some magical reason I believed her".

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