Amy77 Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 We dated for 7 months and I became so obsessed with him, I still am. I found out he was dating another girl on Christmas Day (nice) and after confronting him he admitted he was crazy about this other girl and couldn't see me anymore. It was the worst experience of my life I just laid down on him crying and that's the last time I have seen him. No contact until last Thursday where a simple Hi on Facebook was sen to me an I didnt reply. Then on Sunday he was drunk and text me asking me do I miss him and I said yeah and then we talked more about random things which stopped the day after (when he was sober) so I text him and told him never to talk to me again and he hurt me so bad and he replie apologising and said he would never try contact me again and the only reason he was talking to me was because he felt so bad for hurting me. Now I'm even worse than I ever was(stopped eating after he left me and had to go to doctors etc) and just feel like crying all the time . I have exams this week and failing them all due to this I cannot think on anything else I want him to text me so bad should I text him and tell him I still love him? I also am obsessed with this new girl (they are not exclusive bf/gf just dating) I keep comparing myself to her and it depresses me . Help me please I need someone to talk to also note we were not officially boyfriend and girlfriend just seriously dating as he says he does not ever want a relationship again).. Help me I'm so obsessed and depressed why does love hurt like this???
mightycpa Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 What you're feeling isn't love. If you think back to what love actually felt like, you should be able to see the difference. You're feeling a type of withdrawal. You probably feel betrayed. You don't feel good enough. What's more, you probably has some misgivings about getting back with him, because if it happened once, it can happen again. You probably also realize you're being completely irrational. There's not much you can do about it. He's not the greatest guy in the world, but you kinda think he is. Similarly, she's not the greatest girl in the world, but he kinda thinks she is. Who knows why? What you do know is that he's not in control of this and neither are you. All you can do is embrace the pain and ride it out. It's best if you don't make contact because, as you've seen, it can set you back. Good luck.
JustDeadInside Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 Then on Sunday he was drunk and text me asking me do I miss him and I said yeah and then we talked more about random things which stopped the day after (when he was sober) This sort of thing makes me want to punch him for you :mad:
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