Hello201 Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 So was seeing someone everything was going so well Until , she said its over ( want to stay friends etc) there was no reason for it at all . Now cos its happened to me before I suspected another person Not right away as we were still friendly etc Then early this year she made a mistake . I did some digging and found that she's "hanging " out a lot with someone I work with , and has lied to me on three separate occasions about dates times places friends don't lie to each other . needless to say even thou its not been admitted to me, even thou I've tried to lead the conversation in that direction. What would you guys do ? Walk away and forget ? No way the friend ship can ever be repaired
FancyFace Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 Go NC right away. She did not make a mistake at all. You made a mistake by keeping contact with her and accepting the crumbs she calls friendship. Oh and she is not your friend, never was. She probably wanted to stay "friends" so she could 1. ween herself off of your slowly. 2. make herself feel better for kicking you to the curb by being able to say "oh goodie, look I screwed him over yet we are still friends" 3. keep you on the back burner just in case it was too wild out there in the big bad world, she could come back and use you to boost her ego, and lick her wounds. Save yourself. The relationship is dead, long dead. Cut contact, stop digging and checking up on her, delete, block and stay away from her.
d0nnivain Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 I don't try to be friends with EXs. I also assume that EXs never tell the truth about their present romantic activities. Yes, lying is wrong but the EXs don't want to shove the new person in your face either. You don't have to cut all ties with her unless you want to. In your head make her somebody you used to know & nothing more.
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