JonjMie Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 Well I'm still here, Im surviving, found out my ex is booked on two holidays this year abroad and without me, I should eb thankful she hasnt tried to contact me in any shape or form, shes a decent girl, I'm just not the one for her. So Im dating again, taking it all slowly, enjoying being on my own sometimes and healing, reading lots of self help stuff. Ive realised one of my faults is that women dont feel engaged or loved with me so I need to learn how to act in a relationship, this is the "something missing" link that ex GF and wife mentioned, so Im a nice decent guy just need some tips and things, probbaly stems from not being particularly shown how to love by my parents I expect.
sober and dry Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 Glad for you But if you found out that it wasn't full NC, either way it's a start! You seem to be doing good choices and learning.
mightycpa Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 Ive realised one of my faults is that women dont feel engaged or loved with me so I need to learn how to act in a relationship Everybody expresses their love in a certain way. Some ways feel good, others not so good, and then there are those precious few where it feels great. I was lucky enough to run into one of them, and the difference between her and a dozen others was immense. I copied everything I could from her, and she taught me by example. I left her when I met my wife, and I showed my love to my W2B much in the same way that I'd learned from the one before. I even half-jokingly told my wife that she didn't fall in love with me, she fell in love with my ex. Giving credit where credit is due. May you be so lucky one day.
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