Middle-age daters...What is he waiting for?

[Gaeta]

Pumpkin: I don't care what Doc wants or feels, my concern is you. If you wanted to move on you would have told him it's over and no playing friends. If you really wanted to have a conversation with him to help with closure you would have had it by now.

 

The way I see you are under the impression you are holding him by the balls and enjoying every minute of it.

[PumpkinLumpkin]

Pumpkin: I don't care what Doc wants or feels, my concern is you.

 

Thank you..... :love::love:

 

 

The way I see you are under the impression you are holding him by the balls and enjoying every minute of it.

 

He can have his balls back because I am NOT enjoying this ONE BIT. I have the worst stomach cramps and want to vomit.

 

Also when I said I had him by the balls, why does everyone take this so literally and thinks I"m power-trippin??? I meant he wants sex more than I! So yes, in that sense I do have him by the balls. It is a phrase, a term of art. Nothing else. Here, to be fair, he has me by the balls as well! He knows I have a huge soft spot in my heart for him esp. because of his medical condition(s) and sometimes I feel like he uses that to his advantage.

 

Anyway there is no new update for your entertainment purposes. I'll let you know as soon as something happens...or doesn't happen.

Edited February 22, 2015 by PumpkinLumpkin

[Ruby Slippers]

Almost every man you meet will want sex more than you do, no matter how high your sex drive. His desire for sex means NOTHING. He assumes getting more sex from you will be easier than getting it from a new woman. He's already done the leg work with you, and you are obviously not clear with yourself about what you want. If you were, you'd be in or out, not waffling back and forth, dancing on his little string.

 

At the very least, you should go out on dates with some different guys. I'm pretty sure you can get everything you were getting with him and more from someone else, within a short time.