chicaboom Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 I've been seeing a guy for 4 months now. However, we still only see each other once a week. I broke up with him briefly for a number of reasons, one of them being this. However he asked if we could give it another shot, and here we are. I told him before we got back together that I wanted to see him more, and wanted him to be more open with me. He has been more open and there has been an improvement however a couple things still are an issue for me. 1. I still basically only see him once a week. We spend either sat or sunday together and then that's it. He works very late at his job during the week-he is not required to, but does it b/c he's committed to his job and there's a lot of work and bla bla bla. He came to have lunch with me during the week once and then invited me over on friday when we were also going to see each other sat, but that's it. 2. we still haven't had sex, and he is the one who is putting a stop to it. I don't mind waiting, but i kind of feel like we should by now. I have asked him why he doesn't really want to do it, and his response is that he has performance anxiety, although everything seems to be working when we fool around. I'm not sure if i'm settling b/c he's a nice guy or if I should just end it. By 4 months there should be more progress than this right?
irresolute Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 This sucks. You really want to be with this guy? He sounds highly unavailable and troubled. Oh well, I guess that's what keeps you hooked. 1
Author chicaboom Posted February 5, 2015 Author Posted February 5, 2015 I don't know if I want to be with him, but i don't want to end things if i'm being irrational or too picky.
irresolute Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 Believe me, you're not being irrational. You're in a toxic relationship and you just don't reslize it yet. No sex for 3 months, don't you think you'll deserve better? I wish you could see it as clearly as I do. 1
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