jackthesnacks Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 On the dating site or tinder for example how do you get pass the initial message and what do you ask the girl thru msgs? Then when u get on the dates before you with her what do you ask to connect with her best?
d0nnivain Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 I can't help you with messaging. It's not my preferred method of communicating. The only Q that matters is would you like to meet. On the date itself ask open ended get to know you questions, but not too personal. Don't ask what is your greatest fear. You can ask about where the go or went to school; what they do for a living; etc. Favorites: meal, restaurant, movie, book, song etc. are great ice breakers. Ask about the town where they grew up. I like talking about dream vacations; it plants a seed about possibly wanting to go away together in the future if things go well. (do not express that possibility; it's too soon) Certain current events work too. For example you could ask about the Katie Perry half time show & how they feel about Left Shark. Keep away from the controversial subjects on a 1st date unless you know the person genuinely enjoys talking about that stuff & you do too. 1
Author jackthesnacks Posted February 4, 2015 Author Posted February 4, 2015 Ok how about after you sleep with them and later on 3rd 4th date etc... what do usk? Also do i have to text a girl or could i just call talk ro her oncr a week and setup date? Ho bout being random or spontaneous with dates how do i know when?
d0nnivain Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 Ok how about after you sleep with them and later on 3rd 4th date etc... what do usk? Also do i have to text a girl or could i just call talk ro her oncr a week and setup date? Ho bout being random or spontaneous with dates how do i know when? Sleeping with somebody comes well after the 4th date. You also shouldn't be having sex with somebody you can't have a conversation with, IMO. Your brain is the best sex organ; use it. The younger you are, the more important a steady stream of texts can be. You need to figure out what both you & the person you are dating think is a proper level of contact. I like less contact than most people so I am not a good person to ask. However, one phone call per week with no other contact is probably not going to cut it. In the beginning, spontaneous dates aren't that great because if the girl is following The Rules or some version of them, she may think that your failure to ask for a date in advance is a sign that you don't respect her. I'd say mix it up. Do some set in advance things & some spontaneous ones. You risk the other person being genuinely busy when you ask last minute.
Author jackthesnacks Posted February 4, 2015 Author Posted February 4, 2015 Ok can someone help me with questions cuz im goinf on 2nd date tonite also on tinder i wanna get girls out on date not sure how to start convo. Also how do i know when to be spontaneous after we have sex?
Ieris Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 Personally I hate small talk, they're conversation killers.. *yawn* so be playful and ask questions which tells you more about her values and personality x
rocketman122 Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 -do u like it rough or soft?- do u like taking it up the chuff? -sucking after taking it up the chuff? - bdsm golden shower scat fetishes? -spit or swallow? Thats a good starter I think, then take it from there.
d0nnivain Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 -do u like it rough or soft?- do u like taking it up the chuff? -sucking after taking it up the chuff? - bdsm golden shower scat fetishes? -spit or swallow? Thats a good starter I think, then take it from there. You are being sarcastic, right? Those are horrid get to know you Qs . They will most likely get the OP slapped, not laid. They certainly won't get him a 2nd date. 1
Author jackthesnacks Posted February 4, 2015 Author Posted February 4, 2015 And what questions are those??
lonely1116 Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 actually I think that you just have to ask some common questions. don't try to be very philosophical. or just hold the conversation.maybe she'll take the initiative in her own hands))try to impress her. it is very important to impress her in true life. here are some tips, if you are interested in it https://mymagicbrides.com/blog/getting-woman-interested-in-you/)))) hope they will help you a bit. once they have already helped me)))
mightycpa Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 for the date: The 36 questions designed to make you fall in love. Don't forget the final step, gazing into each others' eyes. http://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/fashion/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html?_r=0
organizedchaos Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 Ok can someone help me with questions cuz im goinf on 2nd date tonite also on tinder i wanna get girls out on date not sure how to start convo. Also how do i know when to be spontaneous after we have sex? Can you please give us some context as to your dating history? How old are you? Have you ever had a girlfriend before? If so, how many and what was the longest term? Have you been on dates before? Have you had sex before? Sorry if these seem too basic but your questions seem sort of, elementary.
Author jackthesnacks Posted February 9, 2015 Author Posted February 9, 2015 27 2 girlfriends 3 years yes and yes
organizedchaos Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 27 2 girlfriends 3 years yes and yes Then why are you asking any of these questions?
guest569 Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 It's not really "boring small talk" if you actually give a rats about the person and are genuinely interested in them and what they have to say!! Just think about what you would like to know about her.
Author jackthesnacks Posted February 9, 2015 Author Posted February 9, 2015 Because i wanna be able get better quality women and with them u gotta be more funny and intetesting and know how to do things so help!1
d0nnivain Posted February 9, 2015 Posted February 9, 2015 Because i wanna be able get better quality women and with them u gotta be more funny and intetesting and know how to do things so help!1 Quality individuals value intelligence. It does not necessarily require a formal degree but it does require inquisitiveness. Having good grammar rather than text speak & slang helps. Being well read on both the classics & current events is a good start. Having something to discuss rather than gossip is required. Having ambition is also a good thing. Saying "I wanna get" defeats your desire before you even start. 1
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