neeuqia Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 Hey, I've been dating this guy for about a month now. We've been on 3 dates so far and I really like him. We said that we should go watch a movie and grab dinner this Sunday. I gave him the movie showtime and he said ok. So, the thing is, I haven't heard from him at all until today. Should I make other plans? Should I wait? And if I do make other plans will I seem uninterested if he calls on Sunday to confirm.
LoveRefreshed Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 he agreed. If anything, it will make you look like a flake. I wouldn't write someone off, but I know I would be hesitant to make another plan. Things get busy, he might not have time to text and what not. Before I made other plans, I would drop a text, something casual and add in a "See you sunday!" and then see what the reply is.
Diezel Posted February 4, 2015 Posted February 4, 2015 So your plans are in about 4-5 days and you didn't hear from him at all for just one day in the midst of that... and you are wondering if you should cancel? Seems a bit premature, doesn't it?
Author neeuqia Posted February 5, 2015 Author Posted February 5, 2015 Hi, It has not been one day. I have not heard from him for 5 days. Sorry if I wasn't clear.
irresolute Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 Sometimes guy don't text when they already have plans arranged. If you already have a time and place, there's no need to re confirm. I'd text him, though, today just be sure he's not flaking.
mightycpa Posted February 5, 2015 Posted February 5, 2015 He would seem needy if he keeps checking if he still has a date with you. Sorta like you seem needy.
Author neeuqia Posted February 5, 2015 Author Posted February 5, 2015 Thanks! I guess I will just send a casual text to confirm Sunday.
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